In this episode, Elle Chase explores the concept of eroticism, distinguishing it from mere sexuality. The discussion delves into how eroticism encompasses imagination, creativity, and presence, rather than being confined to sexual acts. The episode features Cyndi Darnell, a clinical sexologist, who shares her expertise on intimacy and desire, emphasizing the importance of personal definitions of eroticism.

CYNDI DARNELL:

Cyndi Darnell (she/her) is an internationally acclaimed clinical and somatic sexologist. She’s the author of Sex, When You Don’t Feel Like It: The Truth About Mismatched Libido & Rediscovering Desire (Bloomsbury). Originally from Australia, she’s now based in New York City where she runs a global consulting practice. Her work has been featured in global publications like The New York Times, The Washington Post, Forbes, and so many more. A psychotherapist by training, these days Cyndi draws heavily on somatic and Narrative practices to support people navigating relationships and sexual difficulties, plus professional mentorship and case consultations to therapists and coaches worldwide. Her Online Pleasure School offers a rich foundation into the world of somatic sexology and sex coaching. Her podcast The Erotic Philosopher brings guests of diverse backgrounds together to explore issues affecting modern sex and relationships. 

Her numerous academic works are published in Journal of Sexual & Relationship Therapy and Journal of Sex Education among others. Her expert opinion is frequently sought by media outlets worldwide. 

 

You can find Cyndi at:

 

WEBSITE: www.cyndidarnell.com 

EMAIL: [email protected]

BOOK: https://cyndidarnell.com/book/

IG @cyndi_darnell 

TikTok @cyndi_darnell 

FB @cyndidarnellpage

 

RESOURCES:

 

Sex, When You Don’t Feel Like It: The Truth About Mismatched Libido & Rediscovering Desire by Cyndi Darnell

 

NY Times: Let’s Talk About Intimacy: Cyndi Darnell, a sex therapist and clinical sexologist, teaches couples how to experience more “pleasure and joy” in their relationships.

 

The Erotic Philosopher Podcast

 

Esther Perel

 

Audre Lorde

 

Feeld

 

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