In the fourth episode of the On Being Human Podcast, Rob and Eveline delve into a thought-provoking conversation with Julian, a longtime friend, about the profound connections between our relationships with our fathers and our perceptions of the divine. The discussion, which started in a quirky pub in England, covers themes of selfishness, sacrifice, and the narratives that shape our spiritual beliefs. Julian reflects on a poignant childhood memory that shaped his understanding of sacrifice and traces significant insights back to his Christian upbringing and parental influence. We’ll also explore the balance of giving and receiving, the importance of forgiveness, and the ever-present underlying connection to the divine.

Chapters in this episode

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

01:38 Julian's Early Reflections on Sacrifice

02:31 Impact of Childhood Choices

04:05 The Cost of Continual Sacrifice

06:02 Questioning Faith and Beliefs

10:10 Parental Influence on Divine Perception

16:48 Forgiveness and Its Importance

17:53 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

18:33 Julian's Self-Introduction

19:41 Reflections on Parental Relationships and the Divine

22:53 Nurturing the Divine Flame

31:15 Recognizing and Shaping the Divine

32:44 Invitation to Openness

More information on Julian

https://www.facebook.com/julian.surtees.9/

https://www.instagram.com/surteesjulian/

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