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Fake it until you make it - My Relationship with Climax


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In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Sophisticatedly Ratchet Podcast, the crew dives deep into one of the most misunderstood and taboo topics: orgasms—aka "The Big O." 💥🔥

🎙️ Episode Highlights:

🔥 Faking It vs. Making It: The Tribe shares candid personal stories and tackles questions like:

  • 💥 Can you tell when your partner is faking?
  • 🤔 How do you respond if someone confesses they’ve never had an orgasm with you?
  • 😏 Does telling a man to "cum" actually mean you want him to finish?
  • 🚫 No More Faking! Inspired by a viral clip about women faking orgasms, the crew offers honest reflections on intimacy, performance pressure, and sexual compatibility.

    💡 Mash's Insight: He asks whether body count influences pleasure and reveals his own experiences with performance anxiety.
    😏 TJ's Toy Tales: TJ gets real about incorporating adult toys into the bedroom and how it can enhance or challenge intimacy.
    💥 Flash’s Story: Flash recounts a steamy encounter and shares his thoughts on women’s authenticity in bed.
    👀 Shake’s Struggle: Shake opens up about a time he couldn’t climax, sparking a powerful conversation on performance struggles for men.

    💡 The crew also gets real about:

    👉 The first time they experienced an orgasm 💥
    👉 How porn influences sexual expectations 🎥
    👉 The challenges of sparking honest conversations about sex 💬
    👉 When is it okay to stay in touch with an ex? 👀

    😏 Whether you’re single, in a situationship, or committed, this episode is a fun, informative, and judgment-free exploration of sexuality, pleasure, and intimacy.

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    Time Stamps: 

    0:00 - 1:04 Teaser

    1:04 - 1:21  Intro slate

    1:21-3:21 Introductions

    3:21-4:03 Topic introduction 

    4:03-5:30 Word of the week

    5:30-5:57 “The Big O” Topic explanation

    5:58- 7:05  “Stop Faking The Big O” Clip that sparked the episode 

    7:06- 16:22 Crew shares their thoughts on women Faking The Big O 

    16:23-18:52 Flash shares a story of when he was intimate with a woman

    18:53-20:58 Shake asks men if a woman tells you she has never had an orgasm while with you

    20:59-22:53 Mash asks Flash if he prefers a woman with more or less of a body count

    22:54-26:08 Have you ever faked an orgasm?

    26:09-29:18 Mash asks when you tell a man to cum does it indicate that you want him to finish?

    29:19-32:57  Can you spot when your partner is faking an orgasm

     

    32:57-36:00 Talking through the porn & sex

     

    36:01-37:21 Keeping in touch with an ex

    37:22-47:15 Do you remember your first orgasm?

    47:15-49:29 TJ adult toy experience

    49:30-53:33 Ratchet thought

    53:34-55:38 Mash experience not being able to perform

    57:37-59:17 Sparking a conversation with your partner about sex

    59:18-1:02:19 TJ on having sex with women

    1:02:20-1:04:21 Sex secretions

    1:04:22-1:05:19 salutations

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