In this episode of Fake Straight™, our guest, Curtis, gets real about his journey of coming into himself and navigating the highs and heartbreaks of love, identity, and everything in between. From getting engaged and married to walking through the fire of divorce, he opens up about what healing actually looks like.

We talk relationships, and not just the romantic kind. We break down the importance of having solid friendships, knowing your worth, and not settling for anything less than shared values (and a passport that stays ready, okay?). He also keeps it all the way real about these dating apps, the mess and the magic of it, and why being flexible in love matters.

This convo is full of gems, especially when Curtis reflects on what he’d tell his younger self: trust your gut, know who you are, and don’t dim your light for nobody. It’s giving healing, it’s giving growth, and it’s giving you the freedom to live out loud.

On this episode of the Fake Straight™ Podcast, host @xoxotanara and her hetero homegirl, @aotherealtor, get real about love, breakups, and all the messy in-between when it comes to same-sex relationships. They dive into the speed of queer relationships (aka the infamous U-Haul effect), the struggle of moving on, and what it really means to date with intention. @aotherealtor shares her ‘fake gay’ moments and how her understanding of her sexuality has evolved, while @xoxotanara reflects on her own journey into dating women and the role of deep friendship in queer relationships. They also break down the importance of boundaries, self-reflection, and healing—because growth is a must. From past baggage to present lessons, this convo is all about learning how to love yourself and others with intention and respect.

In this episode of Fake Straight™, host @xoxotanara chops it up with @callmekenn_ about his journey from Kansas City to New Orleans, growing up as a queer person of color, and navigating family dynamics while coming out. Kenn gets real about navigating identity, social media’s role in coming out to his dad, toxic love, and  the beauty of authenticity. We dive into the power of self-love, the weight of societal expectations, and what it means to prioritize self-love and happiness in the LGBTQ+ community.

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Guest: @damnmindy

In this two-part episode of the Fake Straight Podcast, @xoxotanara sits down with @DamnMindy, the internet’s favorite voice on bisexuality and relationships. Mindy gets real about the ups and downs of dating, figuring out your sexual identity, and the ins and outs of lesbian love. She drops gems on what attraction really means, why communication is everything, and how to embrace your truth without letting society’s labels hold you back. If you’ve ever wondered how to navigate love, self-discovery, or family acceptance, this episode’s for you. Tune in for a raw, honest convo that’ll have you thinking about love and relationships in a whole new way.

On this episode of Fake Straight, host xoxotanara sits down with the one and only @damnmindy —a popular internet personality who keeps it real and hilarious about bisexuality and relationships. This convo was so full of gems, we had to make it a two-parter! In Part 1, we get into Mindy’s journey of self-discovery, her experiences dating women, and the complexities of navigating family acceptance as a Haitian-American baddie.

Mindy breaks it down about the ups and downs of dating, why vulnerability is the real flex, and how the vibes are just different when dating men vs. women. It’s all about staying true to yourself while pushing back on society’s tired traditional expectations. Don’t miss this one, y’all—it’s as real as it gets!

Season 2 of the Fake Straight™ podcast kicks off with xoxotanara chopping it up with @murdaugh_shewrote discussing her journey of self-discovery and identity. Crystal opens up about navigating life as a gold star lesbian, growing up in a strict Christian household, and how her faith has shaped her views on dating and relationships. From wild dating stories to unpacking the toxicity of past relationships, Crystal keeps it real about her shift from dating women to now exploring connections with men. It’s a conversation about faith, finding peace, and embracing the evolution of identity—all while staying true to yourself.

Season 2 of the Fake Straight™ podcast kicks off with xoxotanara chopping it up with @murdaugh_shewrote discussing her journey of self-discovery and identity. Crystal opens up about navigating life as a gold star lesbian, growing up in a strict Christian household, and how her faith has shaped her views on dating and relationships. From wild dating stories to unpacking the toxicity of past relationships, Crystal keeps it real about her shift from dating women to now exploring connections with men. It’s a conversation about faith, finding peace, and embracing the evolution of identity—all while staying true to yourself.

On this episode of Fake Straight™, we chop it up with Lex, a non-binary trans masc bisexual. Lex gets real about their personal journey—unlearning church talk and learning to embrace critical thinking and self-acceptance. Plus, they spill on their polyamorous dating life, the importance of showing up for your people, and why respecting pronouns matters. Lex’s story of transitioning, finding community, and putting themselves first through therapy, yoga, and travel is inspiring. Tune in for a convo that’s as deep as it is empowering!

Episode Takeaways

On this episode of Fake Straight, we chat with Lauren and Nathalie (@herandhergirlfriend), two dope Black women who found each other all the way in South Korea.

Lauren and Nat get into how they’ve defied society’s expectations to embrace their true selves, dropping gems on conflict resolution and staying authentic. The convo gets real as they talk about their intentional eight-month break, focused on self-care and personal growth, which helped them come back even stronger.

We dive deep into the challenges that come with relationships, the power of letting go, and the importance of leveling up individually before coming together as a stronger unit. Lauren and Nat don’t just preach it—they live it as relationship coaches, helping others with their ebook, How to Fight Less and Love More. This episode is all about self-discovery, embracing your true self, and doing relationships on your own terms.

Part 1: On this episode of Fake Straight™, host xoxotanara chats with Lauren and Nathalie (@herandhergirlfriend/ @_fabulousnat), two dope Black women who found each other all the way in South Korea. Lauren had been caught up in messy situationships with men, but this time around, she wanted something real. Nathalie was vibin’ and enjoying her single life when she was drawn to Nathalie. Their love moved fast because they created a safe and nurturing vibe for each other.

They’re keeping it real about what it takes to make a relationship work: open communication, setting expectations, and learning from their eight-month "break-up-to-grow-up" phase, where they prioritized self-care and personal growth. We dive deep into the challenges of love, letting go, and leveling up individually as well as gender roles and showing up as your authentic self while still holding space for each other. Don't forget to tune in next week for Part 2 of Lauren and Nathalie's story!!

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