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Ever had a first date jump straight to “hotel room”? We start there, then dive headlong into the stories people only tell behind closed doors—where beauty appointments turn into confessionals and ordinary lives crack open to reveal secret worlds. It’s messy, hilarious, and surprisingly tender.
We share the tale of a Plain Jane librarian who finds herself at a fetish club, covered in candle wax and, unexpectedly, in new self-confidence. Nonjudgment and consent reshape her life, right down to her wardrobe and her marriage. Then the tone shifts: a client’s husband walks in with a five-year-old and a seven-year secret. Betrayal collides with grief as she stabilizes a child who just lost her mother. We talk about what respect looks like when your world is on fire, how to protect teenagers from toxic modeling, and why boundaries need budgets—if you’re going to tolerate bad behavior, it must come with material security, or not at all.
We also unpack polyamory’s promise and pitfalls through “primaries” and “secondaries.” When John meets Colleen, the rules don’t save the relationship—and the logistics of shared housing, jealousy, and emotional bandwidth hit hard. Along the way, there’s a blizzard rescue gone wrong, code-name systems to track chaotic flings, and first-date overshares that test the limits of curiosity. Through every twist, we return to the same compass: consent, clarity, and choosing yourself early before the red flags become your routine.
Hit follow, share this episode with a friend who loves wild stories and real talk, and leave a review telling us the biggest first-date red flag you’ve ever seen. Your stories might make the next show.
Queen Bee Wax Studio
Brazilian wax specialist in Norwood using hard wax. Smooth, clean, and confidence-boosting!
Sam Rose Beauty
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Ever had a first date jump straight to “hotel room”? We start there, then dive headlong into the stories people only tell behind closed doors—where beauty appointments turn into confessionals and ordinary lives crack open to reveal secret worlds. It’s messy, hilarious, and surprisingly tender.
We share the tale of a Plain Jane librarian who finds herself at a fetish club, covered in candle wax and, unexpectedly, in new self-confidence. Nonjudgment and consent reshape her life, right down to her wardrobe and her marriage. Then the tone shifts: a client’s husband walks in with a five-year-old and a seven-year secret. Betrayal collides with grief as she stabilizes a child who just lost her mother. We talk about what respect looks like when your world is on fire, how to protect teenagers from toxic modeling, and why boundaries need budgets—if you’re going to tolerate bad behavior, it must come with material security, or not at all.
We also unpack polyamory’s promise and pitfalls through “primaries” and “secondaries.” When John meets Colleen, the rules don’t save the relationship—and the logistics of shared housing, jealousy, and emotional bandwidth hit hard. Along the way, there’s a blizzard rescue gone wrong, code-name systems to track chaotic flings, and first-date overshares that test the limits of curiosity. Through every twist, we return to the same compass: consent, clarity, and choosing yourself early before the red flags become your routine.
Hit follow, share this episode with a friend who loves wild stories and real talk, and leave a review telling us the biggest first-date red flag you’ve ever seen. Your stories might make the next show.
Queen Bee Wax Studio
Brazilian wax specialist in Norwood using hard wax. Smooth, clean, and confidence-boosting!
Sam Rose Beauty