Don't you hate when you are in a debate or argument with someone about something and they try to redefine the subject of conversation to sway the argument in their favor. Sometimes people claim to be part of a group or religion that doesn't actually agree or accept them so they try to redefine the group or try to force them to change their views to match with them. Things are what they are. Whatever you want something to be probably already exists in some form so there is no reason to redefine what we don't like.