This chapter examines the complex issue of false domestic violence claims and the misuse of restraining orders, as relayed by my detective friend with 21 years of experience, who has found that about half of such calls may be unfounded. I discuss the motives behind these actions, which can range from custody battles to immigration benefits, and underscore the term 'toxicity' as a catch-all for the damaging behaviors that drive such scenarios. We also touch on the red flags that may signal a person's propensity to fabricate allegations, emphasizing the importance of honesty and the potential consequences of staying in relationships with individuals who habitually lie or exhibit abusive tendencies. Furthermore, I share insights on how I've learned to discern genuine cases from those that may be leveraging the legal system for ulterior motives when it comes to restraining orders, and the ethical stance taken in our practice to decline involvement in questionable claims.