Holidays can bring out the best and worst in families. Often you see that people are in such reactive mode, that they're not really able to enjoy the process. I'd like to remind you from a soul perspective that you chose your family. You chose them whether you were adopted, you were biological, or if you are assimilated in to the group through the foster system. It's important for us to take responsibility for that and look to that place. If you start with the idea and the humor, and the understanding th