When people say they have a support structure, what type of support are they talking about? What makes them keep going back to it? Often people protest when they feel like no one is there for them and they feel lonely and abandoned. Sadly, many of them are not able to clearly articulate what they want in terms of support at a behavioural level. In this message I will highlight and unpack the dynamics around three types of support that are crucial in the family context. I will also illustrate the biblical basis for these dimensions of a supporting environment. As we examine these, reflect on your need for them and also assess yourself with regards to the degree to which you are currently practising them.