When it comes to our children, grandchildren, siblings. Anyone that we do not want hear the TRUTH about. We get offended!!!WE CAN SAY IT...WE JUST DON'T WANT IT CONFIRMED FROM OTHER PEOPLE (TRUTH) BUT THAT DOESN'T CHANGE THE FACTS!!! WE CRITICIZE AND CRUCIFY OTHER PEOPLE FOR WHAT WE "ALLOW" OUR LOVED ONES TO DO OPENLY AND UNAPOLOGETICALLY!!!