Stonewalling is when someone completely shuts down in a conversation or refuses to interact with another person. This is a state where the person stonewalling is either confused or shocked by a conversation or a set of questions.”   Another term used is “silent treatment!”   

Signs of Stonewalling:  •They walk out in the middle of a conversation without warning or explanation •They refuse to talk about or give reasons not to talk about an issue •They dismiss your concerns •They engage in passive-aggressive type behavior •They change the subject or make accusations to avoid an issue •They give you the silent treatment, avoiding nonverbal communication such as making eye contact with you •They have a hard time admitting when they are wrong, no accountability!!!

Are you a stonewaller? Do you know why this is a defense mechanism for you? How do you react to a stonewaller?

In this podcast, I address the issues and solutions of repeated sexual cycles in our culture.  I believe that we have been led into whoredom and are doing the same to our daughters!  Having been called and led into purity young, I understand the expectations of keeping pure are low and I have, for a long time, tried to understand how to prevent the decline of another generation of daughters repeating our cycles. 

Fire Talks 3.2

I recorded this as I was thinking about the new season I'm headed into...

I wanted to encourage you all to make sure you are discerning those people in your life and the purpose they may serve.  Time is critical and we can't afford to misjudge people who are sent to be our enemy!

Peace, Love, & Light

Music: Same Shit by BJ Torch f/Don Dulli & Tito Lopez

A quick encouraging word - to self reflect and grow! As I learn, my desire is always to teach.  For two months, I've been learning how to love me a little bit more and challenge myself beyond recent limiting beliefs.  I pray this short podcast makes a difference in your life!

Part II to "Biblical Polygyny" features my husband, Don Dulli, as he gives his perspective of biblical polygyny.  Listen in as he answers how we began to change our mindset, how polygyny can rebuild our communities and also address the often overlooked selfishness of women (and men).