“Lose twenty pounds in two weeks!” “Get cash now!” “Earn your degree in seven days!” Any of these suspicious promises sound familiar?

We live in a world that wants things fast. We don’t have the time—or the patience—to wait. Let’s be honest, though. While promises like these sound great, they’re unrealistic at best.

The same is true for making changes at home. If there are deep-rooted issues in your family, and a complete 180-and-degree turnaround is in order, be prepared. There’s no quick fix, no instant remedy.

Now don’t get me wrong—change is possible for your family. But real transformation won’t come without steady perseverance.

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