Father & Friend: Interviews With Everyday Dads

What happens when career ambition collides head-on with family life? In this episode, Tim sits down with Connor — a first-time dad, commercial pilot, and former aspiring Air Force aviator — for an honest conversation about the choices that define us as fathers.

Connor shares what it was like to grow up as the oldest of four boys in a military family, watching his stoic, often-deployed dad lead by example. He opens up about his own years-long pursuit of becoming an Air Force National Guard pilot — and the pivotal moment when his wife's pregnancy helped him finally see how far his priorities had drifted from what mattered most.

From missing church every Sunday during airline training to leaving home just days after his son Cooper was born, Connor reflects on the cost of unchecked ambition — and the unexpected peace he found in letting it go.

The conversation also dives into the lost art of rites of passage, the book The Intentional Father by Jon Tyson, and Connor's plans to walk his son through meaningful milestones — from the first shave to learning to fly.

In this episode:

• Growing up in a military household and learning to lead by example
• Why the Air National Guard dream nearly cost Connor his family
• Life as a reserve pilot and navigating an unpredictable schedule with a newborn
• The power of rites of passage and why modern boys are missing them
• Extracurriculars, sports, and finding the balance between pushing and allowing kids to choose
• What being truly present looks like with a 4-month-old

Father and Friend is a podcast for dads who want to show up, love deeply, and make a lasting impact on their families. Visit fatherandfriend.com to connect.

Consistency, Sacrifice, and Raising Kids on Purpose (with Ben, Dad of Five) In this Father and Friend episode, Ben (husband to Kelly and father of five) shares how growing up with an engaged, hardworking dad shaped his approach to family life. He describes his father’s steady presence, strong church involvement, and willingness to work multiple jobs and even give up flying to provide, teaching Ben the value of duty and sacrificing personal desires for those you love. Ben explains how he tries to build a special relationship with his only son in a girl-heavy environment and outlines key practices in his home: consistency through daily rhythms and routines, balanced discipline with his wife, and leveraging strengths like teaching/coaching and organization. He discusses homeschooling support, teaching life skills (money, sexuality, drugs/alcohol), prioritizing marriage, and parenting as preparing kids to leave and thrive for generations. 00:00 Father and Friend - Consistent Faithful Fatherhood with Ben 00:10 Introduction 01:34 Growing Up with an Engaged Father 07:48 Lessons from Dad's Sacrifice 14:32 Three Pillars of Fatherhood 15:00 Consistency and Family Rhythms 19:05 Teaching and Coaching 22:06 Teaching Children About Life 28:41 Organization and Structure 47:32 Putting Marriage First 53:17 Maintaining Connection Through Baby Years 01:03:13 Final Thoughts 01:03:35 Thinking Generationally

In this conversation, Tim and Brent Howell discuss the profound impact of divorce on fatherhood and marriage, exploring Brent's personal journey from being a child of divorce to becoming a father of five. They delve into the misconceptions surrounding marriage, the importance of faith, and the lies that often lead to marital strife. Brent emphasizes the need for spiritual leadership in the family, the significance of honoring one's spouse, and the necessity of training children with both truth and grace. The discussion also highlights the mission of Covenant Army, which aims to equip couples to strengthen their marriages and combat the challenges they face.

Connect with Brent and Lucy ⁨@CovenantArmyPodcast⁩

or at https://covenantarmy.org/

TAKEAWAYS

*Divorce can have a lasting impact on families and children.

*Understanding the true nature of marriage is crucial for success.

*Faith plays a significant role in navigating marriage and fatherhood.

*Identifying and combating lies in relationships is essential.

*Selfishness is often at the core of marital issues.

*Apologizing and humility can lead to healing in relationships.

*The myth of the Brady Bunch family often misrepresents reality.

*Every marriage faces daily battles that require attention and effort.

*Leading spiritually as a father sets a strong example for children.

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#BreakTheCycle

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In this episode of Father and Friend, Tim engages in a fantastic conversation with Mike Eads, a seasoned military leader and author of the book "Awaken." Mike shares his journey as a father and the profound impact of his faith on his life. The discussion delves into the significance of discipline and how leadership starts with dad, the challenges of maintaining family bonds amidst military life, and the necessity of brotherhood among men. Mike also shares practical advice on how to instill discipline in children, the importance of prayer, and the value of memorizing scripture as a means of spiritual growth and connection within the family. Mike knows from experience that men should not do life alone.

Connect with Mike:

https://ironlionforge.com

Check out his book, "Awaken":

https://a.co/d/3zhUpFp

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#legacybuilding

#faithandfamily

#militarylife

#BrotherhoodInChrist

#DisciplineAndPurpose

#IronLionForge

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#livingfortheirgood

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In this conversation, Tim and Danny Andreas explore the challenges and strategies of long-distance fatherhood. Danny shares his personal journey as a father living apart from his daughter, emphasizing the importance of emotional connection, honesty, and creative ways to maintain a strong bond. He discusses the impact of legal challenges on fathers, the significance of positive reinforcement in parenting, and the development of a platform designed to enhance virtual parenting experiences. Throughout the discussion, Danny offers valuable insights and encouragement for fathers facing similar situations, highlighting the importance of resilience and never giving up on their children.

Connect With Danny: https://distancedads.com/

@distancedads

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#fatherhoodjourney #positivereinforcement

#parenting

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#PositiveParenting

#ParentingTips

#fatherandfriend

#livingfortheirgood

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In this conversation with Tim, Peter shares his journey from a homeschooling family to a successful career in startups and government. He reflects on the impact of his childhood experiences, particularly the influence of his mother and the Bible, on his personal and professional development. Peter discusses his work in the blue economy and the challenges of integrating faith with business. He emphasizes the importance of family values, particularly in parenting, and shares insights on how to balance work and family life. The three key takeaways are to pray, play, and grow with your family. The conversation also highlights his latest project, Bible Belles, aimed at providing positive messaging for young girls.

Connect With Peter:

https://www.fruxd.com/

Connect With The Bible Belles Project:

https://shop.biblebelles.com/

00:00 Intro

03:22 The Impact of Military Experience

09:01 Transitioning to the Startup World

11:01 Exploring the Blue Economy

15:44 Bible Bells: A New Venture

20:19 Fatherhood and Personal Growth

23:45 The Journey of Independence in Parenting

24:46 The Importance of Prayer in Family Life

26:45 Playing Together: Building Bonds

28:35 Growing Together: Family Experiences and Learning

30:04 Navigating Education Choices for Children

34:26 Cultural Integration and Parenting Values

37:50 Final Reflections on Parenting and Humility

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#PeterRobbins #parenting #childhood #memories #BibleBelles #blueeconomy #startups #familyvalues #culturalintegration #personalgrowth #faithbasededucation

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In this conversation, Daryl shares his journey as a father of six, reflecting on his upbringing, the impact of his father's hypocrisy, and the abuse and trauma he faced in childhood. He discusses the turning point in his life that led him back to faith after running for 25 years, the importance of creating an open and honest family environment, and his desire to empower the next generation of men through mentorship and discipleship.

If you've ever felt like you've had too much trauma growing up to be a great dad, be encouraged by Daryl's story. God can change anyone who asks!

00:00 Daryl's Journey as a Father

07:25 Overcoming Childhood Trauma and Finding Faith

14:32 The Turning Point: A Life-Altering Experience

20:09 Building a Strong Family Foundation

26:27 Creating an Open and Honest Family Environment

33:50 Empowering the Next Generation of Men

#fatherandfriend #livingfortheirgood #FatherhoodJourney #HealingGenerations #FaithAndFamily #BreakingCycles #Mentorship #Discipleship #RaisingMen #legacybuilding

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In this episode of Father and Friend, host Tim Anderson sits down with Klem, founder of Christian DadBud, to talk about fatherhood, faith, and the importance of being present, leading, and providing for your family. Klem shares his personal journey, cultural insights from the Philippines, and practical ways Christian dads can grow in intentional fatherhood.

What does it really mean to be a present father?

Klem opens up about his upbringing in the Philippines, how tough-love fatherhood has shifted over the years, and how becoming a Christian reshaped his view of parenting. He shares the three guiding principles that anchor his family life:

1. Being Present

2. Leading

3. Providing

The episode also dives into the impact of fatherlessness, cultural perspectives on dads in the Philippines, and how Christian parents can build healthier rhythms for family life.

If you’re a dad seeking encouragement, wisdom, or practical tips on leading your family with faith, this episode will speak directly to you.

Connect With Klem on Facebook or Substack For More Fatherhood Encouragement:

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566472820071

https://thechristiandadbud.substack.com/

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In this episode of Father and Friend, host Tim Anderson sits down with Joe Saenz—pastor, chaplain, police officer, and author of She Saved Her Daddy. Joe opens up about his journey through infertility, adoption, fatherhood, the heartbreaking loss of his daughter, and how faith in Christ transformed his life and family.

Joe Saenz shares his powerful testimony of hope, loss, and redemption. He reflects on growing up with a hardworking but often absent father, his own journey to becoming a dad after years of infertility, and the deep faith lessons he learned after the tragic diagnosis and short life of his daughter. Joe speaks candidly about grief, depression, and the turning point where surrendering to God changed everything.

From selling his gaming setup to devote more time to family, to starting The Forge Ministry and writing She Saved Her Daddy, Joe’s story is one of healing, resilience, and living with intentionality. He emphasizes being present with family, creating meaningful memories, studying Scripture daily, and ensuring his children know both his love and God’s love.

Read more about Joe's story: She Saved Her Daddy: https://a.co/d/i3KtudD Heaven's Ranch: Inspired by a True Dream Of Heaven: https://a.co/d/eMDa8lb Connect With Joe at BIG Ministry facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1GWnnqAgXS/

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In this powerful episode of Father and Friend, host Tim Anderson sits down with Israel Wayne—father of 11, author, speaker, and founder of Family Renewal—to discuss homeschooling, fatherhood, overcoming a broken past, and how the Bible provides a roadmap for all of life and family. Israel shares his inspiring journey from an abusive childhood to raising a thriving, God-focused family, offering practical wisdom for dads who want to lead their homes God’s way.

He explains how the Word of God is not compartmentalized, but a complete guide for every aspect of life—from marriage and parenting to education and discipline. Drawing from his books such as Raising Them Up: Parenting For Christians, Education: Does God Have an Opinion?, and Pitchin’ a Fit: Overcoming Angry and Stressed Out Parenting, Israel outlines three key biblical principles that shaped his family:

1. Daily Family Bible Time – The importance of consistently reading and applying Scripture together.

2. Homeschooling and Father-Led Education – Why dads are called to take responsibility for both spiritual and academic discipleship.

3. Father-Led Discipline – How biblical discipline led to peace and unity in his home.

Israel also shares insights from his upcoming Christian philosophy curriculum, discusses his ministry FamilyRenewal.org , and reflects on what it means to lead multiple generations through godly example. His story is a living testimony of how God redeems brokenness to build families that honor Him.

VISIT ISRAEL WAYNE'S WEBSITE:

https://familyrenewal.org/

https://israelwayne.com/

#FatherAndFriendPodcast #IsraelWayne #ChristianParenting #BiblicalFatherhood #FaithAndFamily #FamilyRenewal #ChristianFatherhood #Homeschooling #ParentingPodcast #DiscipleshipAtHome #GodlyParenting #RaisingChildren #ChristianEducation #FaithBasedFamily #BiblicalParenting #ParentingWithPurpose #ChristianDad #FamilyLeadership #OvercomingAnger #FaithDrivenFatherhood

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