Not every disagreement is a reason to leave.
Carl Trueman calls the automobile the most damaging invention in the history of the Western church, not because cars are evil, but because for the first time, an ordinary Christian could drive past a dozen good churches looking for the one that suits them best. Church stopped being the body you were placed in and started being a product you shop for. C.S. Lewis saw the same danger coming decades earlier. In The Screwtape Letters, a senior demon advises sending a churchgoer "all over the neighbourhood looking for the church that suits him until he becomes a taster or connoisseur of churches," making him a critic instead of a pupil.
This message walks through Acts 15:36-41, where two of the most respected leaders in the early church, Paul and Barnabas, have a real and painful disagreement and go their separate ways. It's an unlikely text to answer the question of when a church split is legitimate, and when we're just running from ordinary friction dressed up as conviction.
In this sermon:
Christians Can Disagree. Why the disagreement over John Mark wasn't a sin issue, how theological triage helps us know the difference between what's worth fighting over and what isn't, and why mature, Spirit-filled believers can look at the same situation and land in different, defensible places.
Christians Can Separate. What made Paul and Barnabas's parting different from how most church splits happen today, why they were "commended to the grace of the Lord" rather than accused, and how their broken partnership was eventually restored.
Christians Must Commit. Why consumerism, disappointment, and even real hurt aren't good enough reasons to leave a church, what Matthew 18 actually calls us to do instead, and how the friction of being in real relationship with imperfect people might be exactly what God uses to disciple you.
Also covered: the difference between a unity built on truth and a false unity built on avoiding conflict, a 2004 quote from an Episcopal bishop who chose to prioritize institutional peace over doctrine, and why Jesus, who never treated His church like a consumer, is the only reason we're able to stay and forgive instead of leave.
ABOUT FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH HAW RIVER
At First Baptist Church, we want to encourage you to know Christ, grow in Christ, and go for Christ. The Church is not a building, but a family of born-again believers who commit to loving one another by gathering together regularly for worship and running alongside one another as we know, grow, and go in Christ. We, at FBC, have been a church who loves and lives out the gospel in downtown Haw River, North Carolina, near Burlington, Graham, and Mebane since 1892. We would love to meet you on a Sunday at 11:00 am at 508 E Main St, Haw River, NC 27258.
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Preached by Justin Stevers, Lead Teaching Pastor
Series: Looking Back to Look Forward, a study through the book of Acts
Scripture: Acts 15:36-41 (ESV)
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