Anyone with a kid knows its tough to raise one alone. Its even more difficult to raise one when you and the other parent have different views on what's best for the child. Now throw the fact that you both agreed to parent a certain way but the other parent doesn't uphold their end of the bargain. How do you handle that? Should you curse them out, should you use the child as an instrument to get your way or should you make it difficult for the other parent to spent time with the child? Let me tell you about my experience and hear a few do's and do nots.