In this episode, we're putting modern love on trial. From the dehumanising scroll of dating apps to the stigma of divorce, the impossible checklist we bring to first dates, and the conditioning that tells women they hit 35, why is finding connection in 2026 somehow harder, lonelier, and weirder than ever?

Jas, Carly, and Jen are joined by Alex Yapps, content creator, dating coach, and self-proclaimed divorce enthusiast who's on a mission to convince women that post-divorce might just be their best era yet. Together they unpack the bar-is-on-the-floor reality of dating apps (gamification, ghosting, and the guy who "forgot" to mention his wife), why older women are being hunted by 20-year-olds with no bed frames and 60-year-olds who haven't done a day of self-reflection, the surprising case for dating younger men, and whether forever should even be the goal. They're officially adding divorce shame, expiry-date culture, and the algorithmically rigged dating machine to the FckIt List.

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