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FEAR IN TEENAGER : PART 4, FEAR OF SOCIAL JUDGMENT


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What is the FEAR OF SOCIAL JUDGMENT?

The fear of social judgment, also known as social anxiety or social phobia, is a persistent fear of being judged, criticized, or rejected by others in social situations.

It can manifest in various settings, such as school, social events, or even online interactions.

SYMPTOMS:

  • physical symptoms, such as blushing, sweating, trembling, nausea, an increased heart rate, and the mind “going blank”
  • feelings of panic or panic attacks
  • a fear of experiencing anxiety or of seeming anxious in front of others
  • an intense fear of judgment from others
  • feelings of fear or dread in situations with other people, especially strangers
  • feeling very self-conscious, embarrassed, or awkward in front of others
  • having difficulty speaking
  • avoiding situations that might trigger anxiety
  • a rigid body posture and a soft voice during social interactions
  • difficulty making or maintaining eye contact
  • sensitivity to criticism, low self-esteem, and negative self-talk
  • Causes of the fear of social judgment:

    Genetics and Temperament: Some individuals may have a genetic predisposition to social anxiety, while others may have a more sensitive temperament that makes them prone to worrying about social evaluation.
  • Past Experiences: Negative experiences like bullying, rejection, or embarrassment in social situations can contribute to the development of social anxiety.
  • Social Learning: Observing or experiencing criticism or ridicule from others can reinforce the fear of social judgment.
  • Perfectionism: Unrealistic standards of performance or appearance can increase the fear of falling short in the eyes of others.

    Effects of the fear of social judgment:

    Isolation and Withdrawal: Fear of social judgment can lead to avoiding social situations altogether, resulting in feelings of loneliness and isolation.
  • Academic and Career Impacts: Difficulty participating in class, presenting ideas, or networking can hinder academic and career success.
  • Physical Symptoms: Social anxiety can manifest physically through symptoms like sweating, trembling, rapid heartbeat, and stomach discomfort.
  • Low Self-Esteem: Constant worry about being judged can erode self-confidence and self-worth.
  • Interpersonal Relationships: Difficulty forming and maintaining friendships or romantic relationships due to fear of rejection or criticism.

    Coping strategies for dealing with the fear of social judgment:

    Gradual Exposure: Gradually exposing oneself to feared social situations in a controlled manner can help desensitize the fear over time.
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT techniques can help individuals identify and challenge negative thought patterns related to social judgment.
  • Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practicing mindfulness and relaxation exercises can help manage anxiety symptoms in social situations.
  • Social Skills Training: Learning and practicing social skills, such as assertiveness and effective communication, can increase confidence in social interactions.
  • Positive Self-Talk: Encouraging oneself with positive affirmations and realistic self-appraisal can counteract negative self-perceptions.
  • Seeking Support: Talking to a trusted friend, family member, teacher, or mental health professional can provide validation, support, and guidance in managing social anxiety.

    It's essential for teenagers experiencing fear of social judgment to know that help is available, and they're not alone in their struggles. With support and coping strategies, they can learn to navigate social situations with greater confidence and resilience.

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    Teen Thrive PodcastBy Richa Goyal Katiyar