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Fear That Success Will Demand a Bigger Version of You
Here is a 10-minute guided game + insight script you can directly use in a workshop, YouTube, or Sunday session.
It’s designed to create realization → emotional shift → epiphany, especially around fear that success will demand a bigger version of you.
Duration: 10 minutes
Purpose: Reveal how fear of success—not failure—is quietly running decisions.
(Calm voice)
Close your eyes for a moment.
This is not a thinking exercise.
This is an honesty exercise.
You don’t need to fix anything today.
You only need to see clearly.
Because what you can see…
no longer controls you.
Now imagine your current life as it is today.
Your role.
Your routine.
Your income.
Your responsibilities.
Ask yourself silently:
Where am I comfortable… but not excited?
Where am I capable… but not expanding?
Where am I busy… but not impactful?
👉 Insight:
Comfort is not laziness.
It’s often a safety agreement you made with fear.
Now imagine a door opening in front of you.
Behind this door is a bigger version of you.
Not more skilled.
Not more intelligent.
Just more visible. More responsible. More influential.
Before opening the door, notice what thoughts appear:
“People will expect more from me.”
“I won’t get time for myself.”
“If I grow, I can’t hide anymore.”
“If I succeed, I must maintain it.”
👉 Insight:
This is the moment most people confuse growth with burden.
Now here’s the game twist.
Ask two questions back-to-back:
Question 1:
What will this bigger version demand from me?
(Let answers come: energy, decisions, visibility, leadership, boundaries)
Question 2:
What is my current version quietly costing me?
Delayed impact?
Suppressed income?
Unused voice?
Smaller legacy?
👉 Epiphany Moment:
Most people fear the price of growth,
but ignore the interest they pay on staying small.
Now gently reframe using REVITALEX:
Resilience: You’ve already survived harder phases.
Vision: This isn’t ambition—it’s alignment.
Time: Growth simplifies before it complicates.
Acceptance: You don’t have to become someone else.
Legacy: Someone is waiting for what you carry.
Expansion: Growth is not addition—it’s expression.
👉 Insight:
The bigger version of you doesn’t demand more.
It demands truth.
Take a deep breath.
Complete this sentence silently:
“I am not afraid of failing.
I am afraid of __________.”
Whatever came up—
that’s your real work.
And that’s exactly what we unpack together.
“You don’t need a new strategy.
You need permission to step into the version you already are.”
🎯 GAME: “The Bigger You Test”⏱ Minute 0–1: Setting the Frame⏱ Minute 1–3: The Present You Scan⏱ Minute 3–5: The Bigger You Door 🚪⏱ Minute 5–7: The Cost Comparison ⚖️⏱ Minute 7–9: REVITALEX Reframe 🔁⏱ Minute 9–10: Closing Anchor 🧭🌱 Closing Line (You can say this aloud)
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By Resourceful InfluencingHere is a 10-minute guided game + insight script you can directly use in a workshop, YouTube, or Sunday session.
It’s designed to create realization → emotional shift → epiphany, especially around fear that success will demand a bigger version of you.
Duration: 10 minutes
Purpose: Reveal how fear of success—not failure—is quietly running decisions.
(Calm voice)
Close your eyes for a moment.
This is not a thinking exercise.
This is an honesty exercise.
You don’t need to fix anything today.
You only need to see clearly.
Because what you can see…
no longer controls you.
Now imagine your current life as it is today.
Your role.
Your routine.
Your income.
Your responsibilities.
Ask yourself silently:
Where am I comfortable… but not excited?
Where am I capable… but not expanding?
Where am I busy… but not impactful?
👉 Insight:
Comfort is not laziness.
It’s often a safety agreement you made with fear.
Now imagine a door opening in front of you.
Behind this door is a bigger version of you.
Not more skilled.
Not more intelligent.
Just more visible. More responsible. More influential.
Before opening the door, notice what thoughts appear:
“People will expect more from me.”
“I won’t get time for myself.”
“If I grow, I can’t hide anymore.”
“If I succeed, I must maintain it.”
👉 Insight:
This is the moment most people confuse growth with burden.
Now here’s the game twist.
Ask two questions back-to-back:
Question 1:
What will this bigger version demand from me?
(Let answers come: energy, decisions, visibility, leadership, boundaries)
Question 2:
What is my current version quietly costing me?
Delayed impact?
Suppressed income?
Unused voice?
Smaller legacy?
👉 Epiphany Moment:
Most people fear the price of growth,
but ignore the interest they pay on staying small.
Now gently reframe using REVITALEX:
Resilience: You’ve already survived harder phases.
Vision: This isn’t ambition—it’s alignment.
Time: Growth simplifies before it complicates.
Acceptance: You don’t have to become someone else.
Legacy: Someone is waiting for what you carry.
Expansion: Growth is not addition—it’s expression.
👉 Insight:
The bigger version of you doesn’t demand more.
It demands truth.
Take a deep breath.
Complete this sentence silently:
“I am not afraid of failing.
I am afraid of __________.”
Whatever came up—
that’s your real work.
And that’s exactly what we unpack together.
“You don’t need a new strategy.
You need permission to step into the version you already are.”
🎯 GAME: “The Bigger You Test”⏱ Minute 0–1: Setting the Frame⏱ Minute 1–3: The Present You Scan⏱ Minute 3–5: The Bigger You Door 🚪⏱ Minute 5–7: The Cost Comparison ⚖️⏱ Minute 7–9: REVITALEX Reframe 🔁⏱ Minute 9–10: Closing Anchor 🧭🌱 Closing Line (You can say this aloud)