which is more important fear or hope.

For me personally, I have to go with.

A controlled level of fear. when you have fear it enables you. Not everyone, but it was you to push yourself to. To become the person that you need to be. Because. I think if you go the hope route, It doesn't cause you too.

do an action necessarily. When you have hope.

When you're saying you're hopeful for something, it's just a way of thinking. There isn't

not necessarily a way that's gonna make you act.

a lot of people who they go to gas stations, they buy a lottery ticket. They hope they win.

That's not something you can necessarily control. But if you have fear, like if you go the other route, if you have fear of losing your job or. Fear of not having a successful business. You're most likely to make the steps an action to make sure that you get your, end goal, which may be to have a successful business or to do well in your job.

Right.

It's all a balance though, because you do need hope in order to. You don't want to just do stuff and see the, like there's no progress.

Then if you see, there's no progress and there's like, No mountain. to climb. Then there's no push in that direction either. Yeah. Yeah.

That's just my thoughts on it so far right now.

I think that hope plays a bigger part in my life. just for the fact that. It cause when I think of hope.

. On it puts a positive image in my mind. Right. And it makes me feel more optimistic on my future. Hmm. And so if I'm feeling optimistic, A is gonna push towards me. Go ahead and accomplishing my goals. I set for it. If you had versus the theater that will be put in my mind.

It, I don't want it to be detrimental. As in creating no action at all. You know, cause fear for some people. lead them paralyzed, . , in a negative snowball effect when I have hope, or I might optimistic about a brighter future. That's gonna put me at ease. I feel like it's going to put me in a, in a stance where I'm going to feel good. , where I'm heading towards. And then I can go ahead and play that part of doing, doing the actions that need to be taken and be taken care of.

. Didn't you say earlier, before. basically said no one has to tell you if you're a fear. If you're afraid of something that you're just going to move on your own.

We talked about this, like a couple weeks ago. Right. You, you basically said no one has to tell you. To to deal with the fear. You're just like, it kind of excites you. Like, cause it's like solving a problem.

You don't see it, like when you have fear, like it's like a problem that you've got to solve, basically. Yeah. He's talking about, losing. Yeah. Loss. Yeah. Like that was more of a motivator. Yeah.

Yeah.

I don't really see. I. When I'm thinking about fear, I'm thinking about. Hope I don't really see it. I don't see as much of a difference. And. That needs. Cause you don't have to explain to you now. Yeah. I mean, look. Okay. when you're in a fearful situation, you hope you get out. Facts. Yeah.

that's true. You're in a hopeful situation. You're fearing the I'm a knock you on with what you believe in snack. So I think to me, it's his. Albums and possibly to not have one without the other. Thanks. So I agree you have to be able to control your fear was you always have to be realistic budget hole.

Hmm. You can't have, you can't be overly hopeful. Test being overly hopeful. that doesn't mean there's going to need Ash. Right? And being overly fearful. . doesn't mean that you're gonna always is going to need to actually. Boy might cause you to be stuck in the UAE static. Right? So.

I think it's, it's a healthy measure of both. I don't think there is a better option. Right. Whoever goes in Blaine. I'm all about balance when it comes down to it is. I think that every emotion has to have, His counterpart that has both the most life when you love somebody. And you're gonna be some things that you hate about them.

Or a state. You can't just love somebody, night, overly loved somebody cause they probably don't run away.

It's same thing. Like their names. Latin. Perfect in a perfect world. What do you mean by, that relationship or what do you mean by things that you hate? About them. I think that's an interesting. Thought process. There's things. There's things that I can text you just like, back, People, you know, like certain people that I have relationships with actually, there's nobody that I, that I'm like, you.

No. I just love everything about that verse. I mean, yeah. It's not possible what I'm saying. It's not possible to actually to do that. So there's going to be some things that's on the opposite spectrum. Feeling and obviously spectrum of love something. The saints. Hey. But it could just be feared, I think, love and fears.

The two strongest emotions they're out there. That's two opposite spectrums, even though we see his love and hate, because I guess you can dislike somebody naive. Right, right. Yeah. Blake. I don't know. It's just, I think it has to be a balance between it's very possible. For you. To, to go to the extreme of being hopeful and they go to this screen.

Being fearful because both of them are detrimental in their own ways. You can be extremely hopeful and, be living in a fantasy. . you can be extremely fearful and be living in a fantasy world. Right. Cause a lot of times spirits this is based off of, not having enough knowledge of the situation, the whole whatever's going on, what happened too much. And I was in a situation.

And what's going on.

And so that's, that's that's me personally. I think that it isn't I get where you're coming from, but it's like, but that's the, that's the thing with, with anything, like, if you have too much of anything. That will be bad for you, right? But you don't have to. Nothing at all as bad. As well, I understand, like I understand, but like,

The question. The question is basically asking, could you repeat the question one more time, bro? Which is more important fear or hope so. The thing is like, which is more important for you. Like, you know what I mean? If you had to make a decision on like, figuring out, like, if I'm gonna live my life,

Yeah. On on, on, on, on fear. Then you live your life. On fear. And that's not. I'm going to live my life being hopeful. Do you live your life? The hope because you feel like that's more important to you. That's not realistic. Like. Are there. Do it. Yeah. Other people that live completely, utterly in hope at all times. I mean, that's the object.

Yeah, that's I think that's an optimistic person. And that's what I'm saying. That for me, I'm an optimistic person. So I looked at being, living in hope, a living hope. Again, being hopeful. Typically on the same. When you talk about optimism, you talking about, looking at the glass as half full.

Right. You know what I'm saying? I mean, Aside from. miserliness is pessimism. Yeah. Okay. Looking at the glass half empty. Right. That's that's positive and bang. Right. And by that. That means. It's literally add and subtract so on wine and you look down like, Oh, I can see this going. I can see, I can put more in there. Yeah.

If I may, I have. No. You know what I'm saying? It's not the same as. I'm being hopeful. And being fearful, right. It's not. It has to be a balance by being an optimist. He doesn't necessarily mean it to hope. And all the times being manifested as it doesn't mean nature. A year fearful at all times, H is simply means that the way that you view the world.

By the way you look at the, in your attitudes towards attitudes towards. And she'd been to proceed. With Heidi. Boom is different. So those words on that optimism, the hope is that the same thing. Hopeless. How do you explain hope? Hope is.

I mean for me, I look at, we don't want to. I don't know how to explain. Hope cause it's, this is.

I think it's a desire of an expectation that you want to happen. That's how I look at home. So. Way.

When I, when I let let's say for instance, if I'm in a burning house, right. My hope is to come out. My hope is to come out of it a lot. Right. You know where I could be. Living and breathing and I don't have that burn in flames. Right. So my doc, my desired expectation is for my safety, you know, and for me to, to be,

To me, to me to be free to me to be living. You know what I mean? Come on. To come out of it a lot. So like I said, like hope for me is that desire, expectation. On on. Online.

That's the case and hope could be a pessimistic as well. You got home, you ain't going to get out of that. You know what I mean? That's what I'm, that's what I mean by that. Missing go pessimistic. I mean, and it's in that same example. That's why I say a few word being very important for me. That fears the only way I'm gonna get out the house. Yeah.

Right dude, I do not want to get burned. I did not want to lose my life. That's gonna motivate me to move some things out the way, get out the door. I see, and for me, yes. It requires both because on one hand, like I've decided I want to get out of the house. Okay. I have a little bit of fear saying, Hey.

Little bit faster. But I'm going to use both of those and figure out a way to make that happen. Right. So for me, it's both. It's hard to say, which is more important because I think that. There isn't one it's for me, the answer is neither one on one more important. Neither one is more important. And it depends on the situation.

Aren't you afraid though, when you're hoping for something that you're gonna, that's likely to be less likely to act.

Why you won't, you won't take life into your own hands when you're hoping. More than your fear.

I think it just depend on the type of personality. Like. Cause, like I said, it really does depend on your personality. Because I've, I've seen people that I've, that I've known that. They, they always had that desire that they know they're going to do something in their lives and they went ahead and did it.

And then as well, I've seen people that came from a really rough environment. Where they had a promising future. And, but. Darn it, they, they weren't, they were held to, they were, they were, they, they were, you know, They were able to make a change. To, to go ahead and make a, make a change into their lives to get out of that situation out of the rent.

Cause they weren't vehicle and to stay in the situation as it ran, you know what I mean? So you can get it from both ways, but. Not all people would be able to do that in that situation. You know what I mean? I don't think cause stops. If you don't, I don't think I will stop. I don't think he, I don't think it causes you to stop.

I think like, I think being overly hopeful. Can Spansion start your actions. I do think that as possible. So in a sense, I see where you're going with that. I can see, I got hope. Hope I get a job at night. I just feel like, it sounds like. Turns the switch. Yeah. Hopefully it'll happen. Yeah. One day, like, wait, wait, the combinate did.

The combination of fear and becomes, hopefully they had no money. Oh . I mean, phones.

Thanks man. Make something happen. I hope that it happened, but I'm going to make sure that right. right. It becomes right. That's I think day, a healthy combination of both hope and fear is what we call more of an issue. Right. I think that's what we call it that way. Yeah, motivation. I think that's that's. That's that's that's what we call it. A fight.

There's buyers. That is a, is a combination of both of them put together. Run down a certain way and put them both on together. Right. So what are the negatives of just taking out the hope and just pushing out? Just with fear negatives. You can't, you can't, it's not yourself. You can, you can, you can become to the point.

Don't move. Do you know what I mean by that? So fearful that you don't make no decision at all. Okay. You said Florida's a decision. Well, you've made a decision. Dang it also the fear that you was looking at patents.

huh? Kind of gives you a little bit of a vision as well. So I want to spend your vacation like hopeless. Fear. Give you. Vision. It gives you, it's just another way of looking at. the future. Situation, right. Or whatever the situation is like, it gives you. Insight.

And this is like, Yes, this is. It's activating your third guy. I hate to say it like that, because now it is now. Being freaking move. And know what I'm saying is when we talk about, when we talk about the dirt out, we're going to talk to him about he's been able to, is to have third eye is foresight.

Right. And both hope and fear combined together gives. Healthy foresight. Now you can have too much hope and it gives you a bad. A foresight to have so much fear and he gives you a path or a site, or you have. These were good foresight. And you know, how you, how you look at it. Wait, the healthy combination of both is what creates positive, increase them.

Better? No. Wrong or, Grace. The more beds. Way of movie. Going to force a more effective way. Yes. Sorry. That's why I say it's. Both. It has to be asking you a combination of both. He knows of those, Concepts. That knows those on the spiritual concept. I don't wanna say abstract name. I use abstract abstract concepts. I

Molding together. David come reality. If you do it, the right. I think. I think most people. Can we have more people that. Well, there's no way of knowing this for sure, but I think we have more people that they're on the hope spectrum. More. That it caused him not to move there. I feel like most people are not, but I'm basing this off of my experiences with my professional experiences. I feel like more people are.

Not scared enough. Yeah, so they don't move. But like when the new year starts, they hope they lose weight. Right. But they're not scared. They're not scared to the effect. Like if they don't lose weight, when they get older. They might be diabetic. They might have bone problems. They might not be able to walk. They might be, have to have a leg cut off.

That doesn't scare them enough. There's not enough. They don't have enough here. Right. That's still a healthy combination of both. You still need both. Good you have, if you're afraid of not paying. healthy. You might do something about it or you could give up. No, this is me to sign on, live this out on that.

All down himself. Right, right. Yeah. You've heard that. You've heard a thousand times. And that's coming from a, a strong figure, Stanford. Right. So. I'm not, I'm saying that dairy is a positive aspect, so fear. Right. But there's also a negative aspects of feeding. And I think when you say fear, we only home we've honed in on the negative.

Yes. The positive aspects. That's where I was going with it. Yeah. I know. Oh, that's fine. I'm clarifying it. So. But it's the same thing with hope. We hope. We think that hope has a positive spin. Like there's a negative aspect to it that we don't hone in on as well. We kind of focus when you hear the whole thing positive.

Do you have anything negative when they automatically, yeah. We'll have set up and programmed to believe that because that's just, that's the way I, the collective conscience says, decided that it was going to be. But we also know that that's not actually accurate when you add in the world and you're doing things and you're moving around in this world.

It's not the same. you can't, you understand that you can't just be fearful of everything. No, what I mean? Can't be hopefully everything. Alright. No. What I mean, even when dealing with, different people, you can't be every time I like. The instance, you see a, another, different, person that's not liking, they don't look back and automatically you go into whatever stereotype that you have of that, of that deck person.

Whatever. you can be amazing. You can be, you know, thought process on. You see that in your life, you got two choices. You can be fearful when you've got three choices and I'll ask you why, and you can be fearful of that person and believe those stereotypes or whatever you need to be. I'm hopeful that those stereotypes don't exist, but then it's vice versa as well, because you could be open to it that could put you in danger by me to help, to hopeful about the situation.

And in that way, or it can put you in danger by me and food too, fearful to that person. You just attendance. So it's just a matter of like, The concept's the abstract concepts, but we live in a reality that we live in this world. You have to look at it from your perspective. Have you got it? In reality, it has to have it. Hasn't been a marriage of both.

That's been a healthy marriage, right? So that's just my personal thing. From my experience, but again, You feel proud, you feel, you feel like fears about an emotion. You feel like there's way better, right? Yeah. Yeah. More important. It's more important. Maybe you feel like hope is more. Oh water.

And I feel like he's. Mixture of both. Oh, no, thanks. Not possible. I don't even think this podcast will be possible. That was the situation. And we named off with just your ideology, only the podcast. And we live in fear and that aspect, I don't know if we would have gotten as far as we have and then the same way I hope. I don't think we would've got as far as we had. I think it was a combination of both.

Cause you told them you will be more of an embodiment of fear. From when he came down to you right now, you need to make this happen. Yeah. And, the, you will be inviting it a fault. I was saying, Hey, look, bro, this would be great. If you just did this, make this happen. And I'm like, alright.

Well, That's making this happen.

It's combination of both. I do. Do you feel like it's because all three of us came together and made it only happened because all three of us came together in the app. Through would've happened actually. We know it wouldn't happen. Right, right. We experimented with that and it didn't work just on the whole. It didn't work with just going on on the field. You get a combination of both.

In order to make that, do you read from him?

Well, I it's hard for me to know. Cause I don't know, like what was. What was stopping us before, like what's, everyone's internal battle. Well, I mean, We were talking about in the morning we tried and then it just didn't, it just didn't happen. Like which side of war are we leaning towards? I mean, Oh, you want that?

I don't remember. Do you have, do you not?

We sit in the library and he was talking about turning the gap, right. We'll kill all the time. They get happy. We got hopes that it's. going to happen is maybe. We really need this. Editing the actions just to, even though we were in the room could have been a name. It didn't happen. Let's get to talking about the future of it.

Instead of. going into Ash life, actual steps to maybe have our lawyers.

Got it. We could have got on the phone and made it happen. When doing this, the action, we just brought them way more actions this time. Than what it was the first time. Right. It was more realistic. Do you think it was more of a balance? Yeah. Yeah. Cause the first time it was just me to be. And we will stop and then podcasts with different remote. We'll be stopping by just looking for a local heroes. It wasn't, it was like, let's try to drag you just, it just didn't work out as opposed to.

I just say that same, instead of saying goals and things of that nature, but it didn't work out, I suppose. I see it's coming from. I. I see you balancing it up. Like it is a balance, but I think we got it started because of fear now. That's exactly where I was going to go towards because the fact of 2020 headache.

And all these events that came. Before we start talking about, we're talking about now. Yeah. Going again. How, how, how it, how this came about with, with. Use the Corona.

You don't know the chroma hadn't hit. Guys yet before we started rolling. You don't remember how that started? Bypass this part does. Yeah.

no, no, no, no, no, no, because there was no, there was no porn scene. It's a two, 2020. And it didn't start until March two times when we did this deal more on pop. We had in your pocket. Yeah, but we're talking about this one. This is our second iteration. No, I'm saying this is the, this is the same.

Podcast. We.

We stopped the first time we took a break. Yeah. I'm talking about now, though it was in 2017. Oh 2008, 19. That was 2018. Yeah. You tried and didn't work. Yeah. It's a 2020. Yeah. We can get to you. He came back and got it right. You made that right now in the winter came about it. Wasn't a component that causes profits about those before.

I feel like it was more, it was the fear I'm talking about. Yeah, we can. We came around the first time we're talking about the second time. What I'm talking about, we're talking about now. Yes, we did sound right here. It was, it was a combination of both is what I'm saying, because you came to, like, you seen me walking down the street.

I was mobbing late. night, whatever we'll walk on its own. You said you came to be seen, you turn around, came and you chop it up. We need to make this thing happen. That's the hope.

I am having a conversation with you. We having a conversation and you're like, Man, bro, if you don't make this thing happen, but when you will never really make this thing happen. That's the fear part. Right, right. Yeah. Was a combination of both because we had already tried just, just the whole weight and it didn't work the first time.

We tried to hold waiting for the first time we tried, we didn't really, I guess we kind of didn't really charge. I was not feeling as well. I think you should. You said Joe came to you based on hope. I think it was coming in based off fear to not cause. Tom at the time. Honestly at the time I was like, we really are getting this going, man. We're all getting older. Like we want to be successful. Right.

Black guy. He was like, just speaking. I was, I was honestly speaking hope. Just because I felt like that was just a. A sign first, actually, I was. We got to do with this. What's the chances of me riding and then realizing that this is you and you happen to be walking in it's this time of night. And I won't even stay on this side.

It was hope it was a lie. It was, that was a hopeful conversation. And then it led to me having a conversation with you and black. Man I'm talking to you and me. You haven't gone since. We're talking about how I failed last time. Yeah. Man, bro, we gotta make this happen. It was more of a. For your type of situation, right?

Yeah. We argued. No. We are, you know what I'm saying? All we didn't, we failed last time. Let's do it. Let's do it and make it happen. Still I'm sitting like, alright, so I had a conversation with me. Yeah. That pumped me up. You ever had a conversation with me that I'm fucked me up. All of a sudden we let's get on the car and he just moved from there and just kept me on track.

So I think it was a combination of both. That's the only reason I say it was a combination of both. Okay. Yeah. At the same time. No, what I'm saying? Some. To make it happen. Yeah. There's some intermingled parts that had come into foreplay. Okay. I'm not walking away from what you said, as far as the fee, it just feels necessary.

Right. You said earlier, it had to be a control fear. At via control. Control of nominal fee. Okay. Excellent. Patrol amount of hope. It's not enough to just hold for this. Nothing just spirit. Right? That's true. Both. That's just. Oh,

Yeah. For everyone to get something else out of it, what we do to help people like balance it out, like, what are, do we have any strategies?

I would say. For anyone that that's trying to create something. And to be able to, To put something into reality into real, to make it real. It's. It's really dumbed down on paper. Like what, what are you most? What are you most hopeful for?

I like the ellipse. A list of like, what are you most hopeful for?

And think of all of the situations. Why that couldn't be wide, that can't come true. Hmm. So that can help you put into foreplay of like taking actions. You know what I mean? Right. Pros and cons like pros and cons and looking at it from looking at it from a fair perspective, right. The pros and cons.

Nice looking environment. What your hopes are. Then looking at it from a peer perspective. With natural whole name, but not the He is making sure you, like, once you figured out what your hopes are and what. What your fears are being able to. Think that an actual plane that's gonna, that's gonna fantasize either one. Like, okay. Yeah. You're dead. Doesn't happen.

Okay, so I can do this two ways, a neutral situation, right?

Did you have to really look at both things?

Yup. Yup. We'll keep him around everywhere in the universe is about balance. Yeah. In order to, in, in strategy that you have, you have to have a balance for both, both sides. You have to live tonight. Even if you want to get some, the ponies. You gotta look at your strengths and no weaknesses. You've done the game, the positive in a negative way. I can.

Could you move is all about towns. No, that's what I did the balance of also the infinite game in the finite game. Yeah. That's right. Yeah. That's right. In order to play the front nine game in order to play the game. I understand. Yeah. I mean, there are friends of mine from the finite game, dude.

That you must use to help you push yourself. Yeah. Yep. I agree.

Yeah. So again, he's, he's all about being there. Is that about having that foresight?

You sat there and I tell him. Okay. I don't want to sound like some crazy spiritual. No, you all see the tree. Wait.

aside from what he's talking about. Is, these are like, I'm trying to bring it to what you didn't understand, a spiritual and a physical manifestation of physical way. Right to understand what they mean when they say, cause it's not like you actually have a third eye.

You ain't got to Reno listed realistically. I could argue now.

realistically Miami talk about third hour. We're really talking about is having the foresight foresight. That's what that means when we say something about third. you can make it synonymous with foresight. Yeah. Cause that's really what it's about being able to discern evil. Right. That's that's really what it's about.

Yeah. Yeah. That's amazing. That's an awesome question. Of which is more important. Neat. Both you need both in order to really survive. Alright. We've hoped you guys enjoyed this topic of our, which is more important, fear and hope. If you. please like share subscribe. You have a sweet back, let us know how we're doing in different topics that you'd like to discuss.

That's pretty much it. Yes, sir. Everybody else right now.