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Feeling Lost After Kids? How to Rediscover Yourself in Parenthood | Matrescence | Patrescence | Ep. 47 | [Rediscover You Series 1/3]
You know that moment—you’re cleaning up after your kids, scrolling on your phone, and suddenly it hits you: “Who even am I anymore?”
Maybe you used to have hobbies, dreams, and interests. But now, your whole identity seems wrapped up in being a parent. You love your kids, but… where did YOU go?
If you’ve ever felt that way, you’re not alone. This parenthood identity crisis is more common than we talk about. And the truth? It’s not your fault.
🎙️ In today’s episode, we’re diving into:
It’s so easy to get stuck in survival mode—especially if you’re a stay-at-home parent feeling unfulfilled or struggling with the transition to parenthood. Maybe you thought you’d naturally “figure it out,” but instead, you’re feeling lost, exhausted, and like you don’t even recognize yourself anymore.
But here’s the thing: You are more than “just a parent.”
🌿 So, how do we start reclaiming YOU?
✅ Shift your mindset—Parenthood and identity CAN co-exist. You don’t have to choose between being a great parent and being you.
✅ Rebuild your confidence—Finding purpose outside of parenthood doesn’t mean you love your kids any less.
✅ Let go of the guilt—Overcoming guilt and shame starts with recognizing that self-care isn’t selfish.
✅ Take small, intentional steps—Whether it’s a parental transformation or simply making time for yourself, it’s about reconnection, not reinvention.
Parenthood changes you. That’s inevitable. But losing yourself completely? That’s not a requirement.
So, if you’re feeling lost as a parent, struggling with balancing parenthood and career, or just wondering if you’ll ever feel like yourself again—this episode is for you.
💌 I’ve also put together a free guided journaling exercise to help you pinpoint what’s missing and start reclaiming YOU today. You can grab it through my newsletter—I’ll share the details at the end of the episode.
🎧 Hit play now, and let’s start the journey back to YOU.
#parenthoodidentitycrisis #feelinglostasaparent #rediscovery #matrescence #patrescence
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Markella Kaplani, M.A.
Clinical-Counseling Psychologist
Parenthood & Relationship Coach
www.markellakaplani.com
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By Markella Kaplani - Clinical-Counseling Psychologist | Parenthood & Relationship Coach | Matrescence ExpertYou know that moment—you’re cleaning up after your kids, scrolling on your phone, and suddenly it hits you: “Who even am I anymore?”
Maybe you used to have hobbies, dreams, and interests. But now, your whole identity seems wrapped up in being a parent. You love your kids, but… where did YOU go?
If you’ve ever felt that way, you’re not alone. This parenthood identity crisis is more common than we talk about. And the truth? It’s not your fault.
🎙️ In today’s episode, we’re diving into:
It’s so easy to get stuck in survival mode—especially if you’re a stay-at-home parent feeling unfulfilled or struggling with the transition to parenthood. Maybe you thought you’d naturally “figure it out,” but instead, you’re feeling lost, exhausted, and like you don’t even recognize yourself anymore.
But here’s the thing: You are more than “just a parent.”
🌿 So, how do we start reclaiming YOU?
✅ Shift your mindset—Parenthood and identity CAN co-exist. You don’t have to choose between being a great parent and being you.
✅ Rebuild your confidence—Finding purpose outside of parenthood doesn’t mean you love your kids any less.
✅ Let go of the guilt—Overcoming guilt and shame starts with recognizing that self-care isn’t selfish.
✅ Take small, intentional steps—Whether it’s a parental transformation or simply making time for yourself, it’s about reconnection, not reinvention.
Parenthood changes you. That’s inevitable. But losing yourself completely? That’s not a requirement.
So, if you’re feeling lost as a parent, struggling with balancing parenthood and career, or just wondering if you’ll ever feel like yourself again—this episode is for you.
💌 I’ve also put together a free guided journaling exercise to help you pinpoint what’s missing and start reclaiming YOU today. You can grab it through my newsletter—I’ll share the details at the end of the episode.
🎧 Hit play now, and let’s start the journey back to YOU.
#parenthoodidentitycrisis #feelinglostasaparent #rediscovery #matrescence #patrescence
–-
🔔 Subscribe for more parenting insights
📩 Join my [FREE] newsletter for extra support - markellakaplani.com/newsletter
👉 Get the [FREE] Calm Parent, Calm Child Guide - markellakaplani.com/calmparentcalmchild
📢 Share this with a parent who needs to hear it!
---
Full Transcript HERE.
—
Want to take our relationship to the next level?
👉Here are my top Resources
👉 Link to my Newsletter
👉 Join the Reconnect with Your Partner Challenge
📩 Get in touch with me (Instagram @markella.kaplani; website; e-mail: [email protected])
🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review!
Your support means the world!
---
Markella Kaplani, M.A.
Clinical-Counseling Psychologist
Parenthood & Relationship Coach
www.markellakaplani.com