In today’s episode, I am diving deep into fight stories and how people engage and end up escalating. 

Fights find their ground when people start reacting from their egos in a defensive way, this way, the conflict turns out to be more about the image that we have of ourselves rather than being related to a particular topic. Our egos don’t allow us to be vulnerable or open to others’ points of view.

Are you tired of entering into useless fights, losing important connections, and feeling terrible about yourself as a result? Try to visualize yourself as a continuous and limitless learner who is searching to grow and is willing to question his/her beliefs. 

 

Fieldwork this week: Next time you foresee yourself engaging in a fight try to apply Susie Welch’s Rule of 10-10-10.

 

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