Sometimes we make choices that consist of hurting ourselves. We do not understand the choice we make at that time causes us pain. Or maybe the pain that we have been carrying around from our childhood into adulthood. Which causes us to create voids within ourselves. Which we end up spending years in trying to fill that void , With all the wrong things , people, places, or even distractions or habits we create for ourselves. It is left up to us to make a change. Or better yet to want change for ourselves in order to grow. So lets learn to take these steps to change and to grow in order to be our best selves for those around us and for those who love us . I pray this message blesses you .