We are coming to the end, we hope, of a melancholy season. There are a number of films in theatres and streaming currently which deal with the slow winding down of a life and the effect it has on family. Include in that Lee Isaac Chung’s Minari , a memoir of a Korean family’s move to farm in Arkansas in the 1980s, and Falling , actor turned director Viggo Mortensen’s story of a grown gay son coping with a hateful father in Los Angeles. The best of them is The Father , with Anthony Hopkins, like