Hey!

YOU ASK AND I DELIVER.

Let me shake your life up real quick,

Yes I’m about to say a lot of shit you do not want to hear, but im pretty sure you need to hear, and honestly that is on you. Choose wisely cause once you open this door, there’s no going back.

Let’s talk MONOGAMY.

Or well… ARTIFICIAL monogamy like I like to call it.

Relationships between human beings is probably one of the most paradoxal topics to attempt to unpack in existence, but here i am trying to show you what grey means to ME in a world of black n whites.

MONOGAMY, OPEN RELATIONSHIPS, CHEATING, INFIDELITY. These are fluid concepts, there is no universally agreed upon definition on what this means, therefore I will be elaborating on what these mean to me and maybe you can identify somewhere as we go.

Everything is negotiable. There's movement, you’re changing and time is passing, my only conclusion of this episode is simply to remind you to INTROSPECT OFTEN. About how you feel, why you feel it, when you feel it and what you’re willing to do about it in order to live more congruently to those things that are considered true to you.

what makes thriving relationships is not only feelings of love, it is a whole hot pot of actions, beliefs, physicality, common spaces with love languages and erotic blue prints. It's a more all in one encompassing thing that will end up in the creation of a world with your boundaries and rules, so just remember that EVERYTHING is possible, as long as you keep in mind that you DO NOT FIND YOUR PARTNER. YOU CHOOSE IT.

… TO BE CONTINUED

As I will be interviewing my partner on the next episode for better understanding of our dynamic. Please DM ME QUESTIONS you have, or comment them here. I will be attentively answering all of them.

Much love,

You got this.

V.