Have you ever noticed those couples who seem to radiate passion and connection, even after years together? Meanwhile, others slowly drift into roommate status, wondering where their spark disappeared to.

As a Sex and Relationship Coach for over a decade, I've discovered something surprising: the smallest shifts often create the biggest transformations in relationships. And the best part? These shifts don't require hours of therapy or both partners being on board to start seeing results.

In this week's episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I'm sharing five powerful yet simple habits that have helped hundreds of my clients move from disconnection to deep intimacy. These aren't your typical "schedule a date night" suggestions - these are the deeper practices that create lasting change.

You'll discover:

• A powerful mindset shift that transforms relationship dynamics instantly • Why trying harder might be pushing love away (and what to do instead) • The surprising morning habit that reignites passion • How to break free from criticism patterns without stuffing down your feelings • A simple daily practice that magnetically attracts more love

Plus, I'll share how these practices laid the foundation for my own 14 year long marriage staying passionate and connected, even through life's challenges.

Ready to transform your relationship? Listen to the full episode to learn all five habits and start implementing them today.

Want to take this work even deeper? I invite you to join me for Turned On Wealth™, where we'll use sex magic and pleasure practices to manifest your deepest relationship desires. Learn more at www.amandatesta.com/turnedonwealth/

In this episode, I dive deep into how connecting with your pleasure and sexual energy can become your most powerful tool for manifesting wealth and abundance. I share:

• My personal journey from burnout and hustle to discovering the power of pleasure-led manifestation

• Why traditional "push harder" business strategies often lead to overwhelm

• The science behind why pleasure makes us more magnetic to opportunities (including how it affects dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin)

• How I manifested 70% of my desires in 2024 using these practices

• The power of ritual and sacred practice in wealth creation

I also announce my upcoming Turned On Wealth™ program starting January 17th, where I'll guide you through:

• 6 powerful rituals to tap into your creative power • Techniques for energy expansion and orgasmic manifestation • Ways to clear blocks and embody your most magnetic self

When we let pleasure lead, abundance naturally flows.

Ready to learn more? Join us here!

In this week's powerful episode, we dive deep into manifestation - but not in the way you might expect. Whether you're tired of doing all the "right" manifesting things without results, or you're a high achiever who's mastered external success but still feels something missing, this episode will transform your approach to creating what you desire.

Listen in to discover:

• Why traditional manifestation techniques often fall short

• The crucial brain-body connection in manifestation

• How patriarchy and trauma affect our ability to receive

• The neuroscience behind effective manifestation

• Why pleasure is essential for powerful manifesting

What You'll Learn: • How to work with the brain to get the most out of your manifestation • Why vision boards and affirmations aren't enough • How to overcome unworthiness and imposter syndrome • The connection between sexuality and manifestation • Practical steps to embody your desires

Want more hands on support to bring in your most incredible 2025? Introducing "Turned On Wealth" - a 6-week ritual immersion into conscious manifesting. 

"Our body is a living, breathing wealth creation temple. Our pleasure is our power."- Amanda Testa

What if the key to a more fulfilling relationship isn't about changing your man, but understanding a hidden dynamic that most women miss? In this transformative episode, MIT scientist turned relationship expert Dr. Jessica Gold shares her groundbreaking approach to creating lasting connection with the men in our lives.

Drawing from both scientific research and real-world experience, Dr. Gold reveals why traditional relationship advice often falls short, especially for strong, ambitious women. She introduces her proven formula for nurturing authentic connection while maintaining your own power and independence.

In this episode, you'll discover: • The surprising truth about what men really need (and why they struggle to ask for it) • How to create a safe space for vulnerability without compromising your strength • A practical framework for supporting growth in your relationship • The science behind male psychology and emotional connection

Plus, Dr. Gold shares one revolutionary question that's helping couples worldwide transform their relationship dynamics overnight.

This episode offers invaluable insights for anyone seeking to build deeper, more meaningful connections with the men they love.

Connect with Dr. Jessica Gold: • Connect with Dr. Jessica Gold at her website here • Dr. Jessica Gold on Instagram • Dr. Jessica Gold on Facebook

Want to dive deeper? Visit www.amandatesta.com to book your complimentary Pleasure Activation Call.

Special Offer: You don't have to choose between being successful and being deeply connected. In fact, learning to integrate both can make you even more magnetic and powerful in all areas of your life.  And if you want more support here, you are going to love my Turned On Wealth Program, it’s all about creating the success of living a Turned On Life.  Check it out HERE.

In this deeply inspiring episode, I sit down with the magnetic Linda Prystawska to explore what it truly means to age with Eros - and it's so much more than you might think!

Linda shares her remarkable journey from theater actor to embodiment coach, catalyzed by a pandemic-era "f*ck yes" moment that changed everything. Her story proves it's never too late to reinvent yourself and step into your full power.

Key highlights from our conversation:

• Why the "invisible phase" of aging is a myth we need to shatter

• How Linda discovered more pleasure capacity in her 60s than she had in her 30s and 40s

• The truth about aging, beauty standards, and reclaiming your magnetic presence

• Practical tools for awakening your life force energy at any age

• Why pleasure is your birthright and how to access more of it

This episode is especially for you if:

• You're navigating perimenopause or menopause

• You feel invisible or diminished as you age

• You're ready to reject cultural narratives about "aging gracefully"

• You want to expand your capacity for pleasure

• You're seeking inspiration for your next chapter

Linda reminds us that at any age, we're "in the perfect position to create the life we want." Her words and presence are living proof that our power and pleasure potential only grows richer with time.

Connect with Linda: Website: pleasurewarrior.com Instagram: @agingwitheros Facebook: Linda Prystawska

Feeling overwhelmed by the endless holiday to-do lists? Craving more connection and joy, but barely have time to breathe?

Here's the truth: The magic of the season isn't in perfect decorations or Pinterest-worthy gatherings. It's in those small, delicious moments that are already woven into your days – if you know how to access them.

In this week's episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I'm sharing 5 game-changing tips that will transform your holiday experience without adding more to your already full plate. These aren't your typical "self-care" suggestions – they're practical, sensual strategies that work in real life, even when you're surrounded by family or racing through your busy day.

You'll discover: • How to find pleasure in unexpected places (no spa day required) • The secret to setting boundaries that deepen connection rather than create distance • Ways to keep intimacy alive, even with a house full of guests • A revolutionary approach to holiday perfectionism that will set you free • The simple practice that amplifies joy in all your relationships

Plus, a special bonus tip for those struggling with complex holiday emotions (because let's be real - it's not all mistletoe and magic for everyone).

Ready to feel more alive, connected, and turned on to life this holiday season?

Listen to the full episode now [Link]

And don't forget to download my free "5 Days of Holiday Peace & Pleasure" audio practices at amandatesta.com/thegoods.

Because you deserve a holiday season that feels less like a marathon and more like a sensual, joy-filled dance.

Are you ready to transform your relationship and deepen your connection with your partner? In this intimate episode, I'm joined by my husband Mark to discuss how sacred sexuality practices have revolutionized our marriage and can do the same for you.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why sacred sexuality isn't about marathon tantric sessions, but rather about deepening authentic connection

• How to move past people-pleasing tendencies in the bedroom

• The importance of opening your heart fully to your partner (and why it's scarier than you think)

• Our favorite practice for building vulnerability and trust: the "Fears, Loves & Desires" exercise

• Breaking free from goal-oriented behavior during intimacy

• Tips for men on embracing sacred sexuality and supporting their partners

• Real talk about handling conflict, repair, and keeping love alive through challenges

We get vulnerable about our own journey from a guarded, performance-based connection to one of true intimacy and partnership. Mark shares his perspective on moving past patriarchal conditioning, while I discuss overcoming "good girl" programming and learning to honor my own pleasure and desires.

Whether you're looking to reignite the spark or take your relationship to new depths of connection, this episode offers practical wisdom for couples ready to do this transformative work together.

Ever feel like you're the only one struggling to keep it all together?

Like everyone else has their life perfectly curated while you're just trying to make it through another day of anxiety, overthinking, and that nagging feeling that you should be "doing better"?

I have a gift for you.

This week on the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast, I sat down with accidental poet JK Kennedy, who turned her darkest moments into something unexpectedly beautiful.

This isn't your typical "overcome adversity" story.

It's raw. It's real. And it might just change how you see your own struggles.

In this soul-stirring conversation, you'll discover:

• How hitting rock bottom led to an unexpected creative awakening that transformed one woman's life
• Why expressing your "mess" through creativity might be the most powerful path to healing
• The surprising connection between anxiety and creativity, and how to channel nervous energy into artistic expression
• What it really means to slow down and "rewild" yourself in a world that never stops
• How sharing vulnerable truths can create profound connections and remind us we're not alone

If you've been feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or like you're the only one struggling to find beauty in the mess... this episode is for you.

Ready to explore your own creative awakening? Listen to the full episode and discover how embracing your authentic voice – in all its clumsy beauty – might just be the key to unlocking deeper connection with yourself and others. Find "Clumsy Beauty" by J.K Kennedy at major retailers and follow her journey of continued discovery at @jkkennedywrites on Instagram.

In this soul-nourishing episode, I sit down with my dear friend Casey Aksoy to explore how something as simple as our breath can transform our relationship with pleasure, presence, and power.

As busy women and mothers, we often find ourselves running on empty, disconnected from our bodies and our desires. Casey shares how conscious breathwork can be our pathway back to embodied wisdom and sensual aliveness - without adding another lengthy practice to our already full plates.

 In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why traditional "self-care" advice often fails busy mothers (and what actually works)

• A simple 3-minute morning practice that can shift your entire day

• How to find magic and pleasure in the "mundane" moments of life

• The profound difference between mediocrity and presence

• Why community and witnessing are essential for our transformation

Casey reveals her powerful personal story of using breathwork to move through fertility challenges and reconnect with her innate wholeness. She offers a beautiful perspective on how we can use our breath to transform everyday moments into opportunities for presence and pleasure.

For the busy visionary who feels called to more but doesn't need another item on her to-do list - this episode offers practical wisdom for accessing deeper states of embodiment and pleasure through the simple power of breath.

Find out more and connect with Casey HERE: https://www.soulfulbreathingexperience.com/

Are you ready to finally break free from the patterns holding you back from authentic pleasure and confidence? In this episode, I’m unpacking the often-hidden role of “Good Girl” conditioning—the messages telling us to stay small, to please others, and to suppress our true desires.

You’ll discover how this conditioning not only impacts our relationships and self-worth but deeply affects our experience of pleasure and intimacy. Whether you’ve struggled with people-pleasing, hesitated to voice your needs, or felt numbness and disconnection in intimate moments, this episode is an invitation to reclaim your power and let go of outdated habits that no longer serve you.

• Understanding “Good Girl” Conditioning: Discover how these messages shape your life and relationships, keeping you in patterns of people-pleasing and self-censorship.

• How Good Girl Conditioning Affects Your Body and Sexuality: Learn how “freeze” responses can block pleasure, leaving you feeling numb, detached, or unable to fully engage.

• Practical Steps to Reclaim Your Pleasure and Authenticity: From grounding exercises to powerful scripts for talking with your partner, I offer practical tools to help you break free from these patterns.

• Creating a New Foundation of Trust and Pleasure: Hear how releasing these old habits can deepen your connection with yourself and others, allowing for richer, more fulfilling experiences in all areas of life.

If you’re ready to silence the “Good Girl” in your mind and step into your most authentic, pleasure-filled self, this episode is for you!

💥 Ready to go even deeper? Download Amanda’s Good Girl Graveyard Ritual—a fun, transformative ceremony designed to help you let go of those outdated “Good Girl” patterns, reconnect with your true self, and invite more freedom and joy into your life. Head to www.amandatesta.com/good-girl to grab your free ritual!