February 02, 2023

Find yourself in the stillness

16 minutes

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Why do we fight so hard for our limitations?

This week, I reflect on a current experience where I'm getting to speak with hundreds of women as they made a decision about whether or not to join a coaching program.

My biggest takeaway is how hard we fight for our own limitations, and how little we fight for our own possibility.

It's wild, ya'll. It also made me think of what Philip Zave, aka PEZO the poet, said in Tuesday's episode about our identities. What I realized in talking to these individuals is that we fight SO hard for the current identity we have, and all of its baggage, when we could simply decide to drop this current identity and step into the calm stillness where we see endless possibility.

And guess what? This identity you're currently living with that feels so STUCK and so tethered to all these things you don't want? It's a figment of your imagination.

Much of your identity is something you craft for yourself, in your own mind.
Sure we use inputs, but many of those inputs are actually reflections of our own thoughts and feelings we project onto others. So, your identity is actually what you THINK others perceive you as.

Are you with me? Read that again.

Is your identity coming from your source, your soul, your highest wisdom, your sparkly radiance?

Or is it this funky false projection thing described above?

It's truly hard to witness people fighting for the identity that isn't serving their heart and soul. However, I also understand that change is absolutely terrifying. Stepping out of this identity we've lived with, often a disempowered identity, feels like climbing Mt. Everest.

What we don't realize is that stepping into something yummier is as easy as floating down a calm stream.

Would love to hear your thoughts on this one!

After listening to this episode, get still with yourself and ask: