"The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast" Starring Dom L'Amour

Finding Joy Amidst Anxiety


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When happiness breaks through anxiety, do you grab it with both hands? That precious moment of joy becomes something to savor, especially when the mind constantly works against you. In this soulful conversation, Shane Murphy opens up about the internal battle between finding creative fulfillment and maintaining financial security.

Shane's journey from self-described loner to partner reveals how love transforms perspective. "Everything is so much freer and I feel so much more confident and supported," he shares, describing how his relationship with Erica provides a foundation that makes pursuing creative passions less daunting. The genuine warmth between these two friends—who first bonded performing as the Bee Gees in a musical revue—creates space for vulnerable admissions about career fears and artistic dreams.

The heart of their discussion explores that universal struggle many artists face: how do you honor your soul's calling while paying the bills? Shane's anxiety about leaving his finance job to pursue music fully resonates with anyone who's felt trapped between security and passion. Meanwhile, Dom shares practical approaches to organizing creative pursuits, suggesting that accomplishing just three career-focused tasks daily builds momentum without overwhelming.

Their conversation weaves through mindfulness practices, overcoming self-doubt, and finding joy in focused activities from painting miniatures to practicing scales. The most poignant moments come when they acknowledge how easily we talk ourselves out of opportunities before even trying. "Just email them," Shane realizes about potential collaborators. "People want nobody comes to this show to see you mess up."

Listen for their spontaneous, soul-stirring rendition of Sam Cooke's "Bring It On Home To Me"—a perfect demonstration of the talent and connection that makes this friendship special. Whether you're wrestling with anxiety, balancing practicality with dreams, or simply seeking more intentional joy, this episode offers both comfort and gentle challenge to take that first small step forward.

Guest: Shane Murphy AKA @theshanemurphy

Opening quote: Roy T. Bennett

Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 1 and Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

and 

from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

Featured song: "This Guys in love with you" Covered by Dom L'Amour and The Andrews at Lemon Bar in Chicago.

Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

Featured song : "Bring it on home to me" Covered by Dom L'Amour and Shane Murphy

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"The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast" Starring Dom L'AmourBy Dom L'Amour