Today, we're diving deep into the world of relationships with the incredible Peyton Leonard, who’s not just a musician and author but also a relationship coach. The main dish on today’s menu? Helping single women find contentment and wholeness in their lives before they even think about dating. We’re all about breaking down that absurd pressure to rush into relationships—seriously, who decided that being single is a bad thing anyway? Peyton's here to chat about how to embrace your singlehood, trust the process, and maybe even get cozy with the idea that being alone doesn’t mean you’re lonely. So, grab your comfiest blanket, because we’re about to get real about love, life, and everything in between!

Peyton Leonard joins me for a relaxed yet eye-opening discussion about singlehood, relationships, and the often absurd expectations that come with them. As a musician and relationship coach, Peyton brings a refreshing perspective to the table, reminding us that being single is not just a waiting period for a relationship—it’s an opportunity for self-discovery and growth. We kick things off with some laughs as we acknowledge the societal pressures that can make single women feel like they’re in a race against time to find a partner, especially within faith communities where marriage is often seen as the ultimate goal.

Through our banter, we dive deep into the importance of understanding one’s worth outside of romantic relationships. Peyton emphasizes the concept of 'abundance'—the idea that your happiness and fulfillment don’t hinge on being in a relationship. She shares relatable stories that illustrate how women can often feel like they’re just waiting for the right guy to come along, but she encourages a shift in mindset. Instead of feeling like a lonely puppy waiting to be adopted, women should focus on blooming where they’re planted. We explore the misconceptions surrounding love and the need to be whole before sharing your life with someone else, making for some pretty insightful moments that might just change how you view your single life.

As we wrap up, Peyton offers practical advice on how to navigate the dating scene with confidence and grace, without feeling desperate or insecure. She reminds us that relationships are great, but they’re not the end-all-be-all of our existence. With the holidays around the corner, we also touch on the emotional rollercoaster that can come with being single during this season, reminding listeners that God sees them and loves them unconditionally. This episode is a blend of humor, sincerity, and a heartfelt message that resonates with anyone looking to better understand themselves and their journey in love.

Takeaways:

• Peyton Leonard emphasizes that being whole and fulfilled in singleness is essential before entering a relationship, which really makes you think about how much we rush into dating without self-awareness.
• The podcast highlights the absurdity of romanticizing relationships, pointing out that they come with their own challenges, not just fairytale endings like Disney movies suggest.
• A key takeaway is the importance of community and seeking support from others while dating, which can often feel isolating in today's fast-paced digital world.
• Peyton shares that learning to be still and waiting patiently on God is a vital lesson for single women, which ironically seems to contradict our culture of instant gratification.

Links referenced in this episode:

Links referenced in this episode:

• https://open.spotify.com/playlist/39CmjSuarWYhKCIuyjMwzG?si=6a90368d417b4201&nd=1&dlsi=b4410d9a81f64696
• relationships.peytonnaomileonard.com

• peytonomylenard.com

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Spotify
• International Churches of Christ
• Disciples Today