BFFs and Boybands

Finding Our Community


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Season One, Episode Four

Finding Our Community”

00:46 So a lot’s been happening in both fandoms... and we got concert tickets!

02:48 Let’s talk about the community we’re connecting with at these concerts

03:47 How we ended up in the World’s Greatest Group Chats

06:57 The value of finding people who want to talk Boybands with you... at any time day or night

09:10 The wider community (particularly Bluesky) and how it’s been good for Muse’s mental health

10:51 You think the guys know that they gave us this awesome community?

11:49 The hailstorm at Louis’ Red Rocks concert and how fans came together to help

12:50 How ARMY charts songs to send a message

14:19 Concerts and ticketing and how we help one another

15:06 Fan charity drives

16:17 Smaller fan projects that mean the world – flowers and daily accounts

17:09 The nastier side of social media (and why we avoid Twitter)

19:10 Concert Freebies! What are they?

20:31 The phenomenon photocards and Muse talks about what the heck “boypaper” is

21:28 Concert fits and what we are planning

22:03 Fan projects, Kpop light sticks, and ARMY sign time

24:32 One Direction fan projects and how Carrie participated in one

26:45 How fan projects and freebies make concerts more fun

29:00 Rallying behind streaming and voting for our guys (we are so sunk for these men)

30:15 Boy of the Week: Kim Seokjin!

38:17 Show closing and social media


Additional notes, memes and music:

A short video on what an ARMY bomb (The BTS light stick) looks like:

https://youtube.com/shorts/oUjapFTe1RQ


Here’s the fan project Carrie helped with at Louis’ “Faith in the Future” show in Toronto:

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZS9dmrSvU/


If you’re interested in joining a fan project at Louis’ upcoming tour, we found this listing. Find the show in your area:

https://louis-fan-projects-h-pymv.glide.page/dl/cf772b?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio


ARMY charity drives – you can donate online to local charities for US tour stops here:

https://arirangfoodbankproject.carrd.co/


Watch Jin do his famous “Worldwide Handsome” intro on the Graham Norton show:

https://youtu.be/wBEu2Tmy_L4?si=MOdW6ezA7lpo6j5m&t=42


Here’s Jin’s performance of “The Astronaut” with Coldplay in Buenos Aries:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FqmYc62HUec


Don’t miss Chris Martin’s beautiful introduction:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iIQDaeNkVOM


And if you’re curious about Jin’s variety show, here’s Muse’s (current) favourite episode

https://youtu.be/EzJaR8QL0q4


Songs we mention:

“Aperture” by Harry Styles

“Die for Me” by Zayn Malik

“Nuts” by RM

“Please Don't Change” by Jungkook

“Sunflowers” by Louis Tomlinson

“Saturdays” by Louis Tomlinson

“I Will Come To You” by Jin

“The Astronaut” by Jin

Listen to our Season 1 Playlist

...on Youtube Music here: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9WhMVmTww0BsmXJAZH0FSuXYaeTR1_O9&si=FqHJfIjK4g1tFH2Y

...on Tidal here: https://tidal.com/playlist/bb1a4982-6b7c-48ca-bec0-a09f41851765

...on Apple Music here: https://music.apple.com/ca/playlist/bffs-and-boybands-season-1/pl.u-PDb44KBTkP6LoK


Our Contact Information:

Bluesky: @bffsandboybands.bsky.social


Show Credits

BFFs and Boybands is brought to you by your hosts: Carrie and Muse

BFFs and Boybands Logo and branding is by Megan Berry and Jeff Leblanc

Our Theme song is “Light Summer Pop” by SingleFX via Audio Jungle

https://audiojungle.net/item/light-summer-pop/57537454 

The “Boy of the Week” logo chime is from Universfield, via Pixabay

https://pixabay.com/sound-effects//?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=music&utm_content=125764

 

Special thanks to every single one of you who has listened, offered feedback and support, and generally been kind and generous with your time and your love.

And very special thanks to BTS and One Direction for making our lives better by sharing themselves and their music.

 

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BFFs and BoybandsBy Carrie and Muse