When dramas are more (people living from the drama triangle of victim-perpetrator-rescuer), fire-fighting and Urgent quadrant living is the norm somuchso so that we need people holding guns to guard our borders. When people are living more from the Winner’s triad of vulnerable- caring-nonviolently contributive, Important Quadrant living and harmony is the norm somuchso that extremists in arms and religiosity may be less to the point that maybe we would have guns in museums for specimen reference only. Finding the right person needs to be guided by the direction in which their life is headed and what makes them truly happy. What kind of questions guides them and what are they doing towards finding answers and solving problems come up from existential questions of what, why, who, whence they are and where they are in the schema of things. What roles do they play and would rather play or at least train well enough to be able to play in due course of time and how well are they invested also determines the direction in which they are rather headed. But, most important in all his is who, what, why you are as a complement for a train needs two tracks to move. Genetic, epigenetic, congenital and investor profiles as history is important. The strength of roots and quality of growth determines congeniality and organicity in the becoming of seed to tree that each person is - a potential tree of life - the nature of which is determined by the choices one makes and the ability to do the right things.