Who is first before in everything it is God the Father, and the Son. In Psalm 23 King David put God first. His desire was to dwell in the presence of the Lord forever. That should be our desire to dwell in the house of the Lord, where find wisdom, knowledge, and strength for all our needs even when we feel confused. Do not let the enemy trouble you.

psalm 23:1-6, Psalm 27: 4