Fitting in or Belonging. I personally would rather be in the belonging group than in the fitting in group, why because when you are fitting in you are actually losing yourself to allow others to control some part of your life. Now why would you want to hand over your life to fit into groups and places that have no benefit to your growth of empowerment success. Be your authentic self and the right people will gravitate towards you bringing more positive vibes of confidence and self esteem making your transformation of change more successfully stronger, now that's EMPOWERMENT