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Episode 2145:
Dr. Margaret Rutherford illuminates the path to healthier relationships by dispelling five pervasive misconceptions about couples therapy. Through her expert lens, she encourages couples to embrace therapy not as a last resort but as a proactive step toward understanding and resolving conflicts before they escalate, underlining the courage it takes to confront and navigate vulnerability together.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/how-do-couples-talk-themselves-out-of-therapy-three-common-misconceptions-that-mask-vulnerability/
Quotes to ponder:
"Your friends often have an agenda. Hopefully, a therapist does not - except to help you and your partner reach a better place with one another."
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2145: Five Common Misconceptions That Keep Couples From Seeking Therapy by Dr. Margaret Rutherford

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Episode 2161:
Dive into the heartwarming message of shared joy as presented by Ryan Frederick in "Joy is Best Shared." The article reflects on a captivating story of three elder women who rediscover the thrills of youth through a spontaneous sledding adventure, reminding us that joy, especially when shared with lifelong friends, knows no age.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.here.life/blog/joy-is-best-shared
Quotes to ponder:
"Joy can be a singular experience. Soaking in a sunrise. Hiking to the top of a mountain. Observing wildlife. But joy is best shared."
"These women are good friends, likely long-time friends, as they seem content to just be with each other. No need for words."
"When their ride concludes, the flashback ends but the joy remains. In fact, there is a deeper sense of joy as the friends revel in their shared experience past and present."
Episode references:
The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808
Live Closer to Your Friends - The Atlantic: https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2023/03/neighbors-friendship-happiness/673352/
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2161: Joy is Best Shared by Ryan Frederick of Here.life on Friendships & Relationships

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Episode 2160:
Explore the profound lessons in Sam's article on why prioritizing your career over personal relationships can lead to regret. Discover the story of Lana, who achieved immense financial success but missed out on decades of potential love and companionship. Learn why balancing love and career is essential for a fulfilling life.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.financialsamurai.com/you-will-regret-sacrificing-love-for-money-almost-all-of-the-time/
Quotes to ponder:
“But you will always regret sacrificing love for money."
"I would have absolutely focused as hard on my love life as I did on my career."
"I would absolutely trade all my wealth to have my family."
Episode references:
Columbia University: https://www.columbia.edu/
Dartmouth College Tuck School of Business: https://www.tuck.dartmouth.edu/
Whistler Blackcomb: https://www.whistlerblackcomb.com/
Swiss Alps: https://www.myswitzerland.com/en/
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2160: You Will Always Regret Sacrificing Love For Money by Sam of Financial Samurai on Personal Finances & Marriage

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Episode 2159:
Explore the depths of a lasting marriage with Dr. Donna Rockwell's insights on creating a mindful union. Discover effective strategies to nurture and maintain the vibrancy of your marital relationship, transcending the commonplace challenges with wisdom and patience.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.psychalive.org/as-long-as-we-both-shall-live-creating-a-mindful-marriage/
Quotes to ponder:
"Staying present and patient through each other’s growth spurts and dips, successes and pitiful crashes, shining moments and monumental mistakes is what love is all about."
"Love is experienced, in the moment, as a spontaneous opening of the heart."
"Anger passes, like clouds in the sky, so rather than indulging its allure, we can simply watch it pass by instead, like a cloud."
Episode references:
Jewel Heart: https://www.jewelheart.org/
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2159: As Long As We Both Shall Live: Creating a Mindful Marriage by Dr. Donna Rockwell with Psych Alive

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Episode 2158:
In "Parents - Start with Love," Dr. Jack Stoltzfus emphasizes the crucial role of unconditional love in parenting, advocating for affirming children for their inherent qualities over accomplishments. The article discusses the profound effects of such parenting, offering insights into building lasting, secure relationships that empower children towards autonomy and resilience, with examples that underline the dangers of conditional affection.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentslettinggo.com/parents-start-with-love/
Quotes to ponder:
“I have tried to please him all my life but it was never enough.”
“The first practice that every parent needs to employ or strengthen is to show in word and action that their adult child is loved, not because of anything they do but because of who they are a son or daughter.”
“Nothing can stand in the way of my love for you.”
Episode references:
A Mother’s Reckoning: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/25937671
The Lords of Discipline: https://www.amazon.com/Lords-Discipline-Novel-Pat-Conroy/dp/0553381563
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2158: Parents - Start with Love by Dr. Jack Stoltzfus of Parents Letting Go on Building Lasting, Secure Relationships

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Episode 2157:
Julie Morgenstern shares vital insights on nurturing your marital relationship and planning a memorable family summer vacation in her latest articles. Discover how to reclaim precious moments with your spouse amidst the chaos of parenting and create unforgettable experiences during your family's summer outings.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.juliemorgenstern.com/tips-tools-blog/2018/7/23/how-to-make-the-most-of-alone-time-with-your-partner & https://www.juliemorgenstern.com/tips-tools-blog/2018/6/25/planning-a-summer-vacation-the-whole-family-can-enjoy
Quotes to ponder:
"Once you have children, it’s almost as if you forget how to have a real adult conversation. It’s so easy to revert to talking about kid logistics, or kid activities, or kid-anything but that comes at a cost, to the sense of connection you have with your significant other."
"Being a parent is not the only thing you are, right? It’s also not what brought you and your spouse together to begin with. For the health of your relationship and your own well-being, it’s essential to make time for each other, with no kids involved."
"Family vacations are a wonderful way for kids and parents to spend quality time together; it’s time to create the space for deeper conversations (that may feel too rushed in every day life)."
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2145: Five Common Misconceptions That Keep Couples From Seeking Therapy by Dr. Margaret Rutherford

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