Recorded: 11/22/2020 / Published: 5/24/2021
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In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to offer some advice on finding a new Dom, sub, or play partner.

- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- Five Questions to ask a potential Dom/sub or Play Partner-S03E21
- Before knowing what you want in someone else you have to know yourself.
- What are the primary characteristics of my Dom/sub/play side?
- Respectfulness
- Playful
- Obedient
- Friendly
- Demanding
- Nurturing
- Sadistic
- Exhibition
- What characteristics do I want in a Dom/sub/play partner?
- Respect
- Obedience
- Thoughtfulness
- Communication
- Enjoys erotic humiliation/degradation
- Masochist
- Alpha sub
- Loyalty
- Community service
- What are characteristics in others that turn you off?
- Lack of communication
- Brats
- Doormat subs
- Arrogance

- Now that you have a little better understanding of yourself it’s time to find out a little more about that potential Dom/sub/play partner.
1: What kinds of scenes turn you on?
2: What characteristics do you find sexy in a Dom/sub/play partner?
3: What experience do you have in power exchange?
4: What gets you off about being submissive/Dominant/play partner?
5: What are things that you haven’t tried but would like to?

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