Flagged, Stolen, and Still Not Silenced

This week’s essay weaves together two moments, years apart, when something I relied on to hold my words was taken from me: a stolen teenage journal and, more recently, an unexpected stint in Facebook jail after an algorithm misread a comment to my friend.

These aren’t the deepest or most dangerous forms of silencing. Many people know far heavier versions. But they did press me back into a familiar question: Where does my voice actually live?

I trace the thread from that missing notebook to a restricted account, through fear, inaction, and the horses who keep teaching me how to return to myself. This episode is about noticing, grounding, and remembering that our inner steadiness isn’t something a platform, or a thief, can take.

In this episode:

• The night my journal disappeared

• What happened when Facebook shut me out

• Fear as a starting point rather than a threat

• How the horses at Lavender Hill model presence and instinct

• Reclaiming small forms of personal power for big results

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