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Flirting is loud right now. Effort is quiet.

And Styles is calling that imbalance all the way out.

On this episode of The Pour Report, Styles breaks down flirtation inflation—that modern dating era where attention gets confused with effort, emojis get mistaken for intention, and soft ghosting drains trust in slow motion. Everybody “showing interest,” but nobody showing up.

Styles runs the play on:

• Why attention is not commitment
• How the flirt-to-nowhere loop keeps people emotionally on hold
• The real cost of validation theft
• Why plans over vibes is the new standard
• And how charisma opens the door, but effort is the only entry

This episode also introduces the Flirtation Fizz—a smooth, unapologetic toast to real follow-through—and a no-nonsense framework for dating with clarity:

Plans. Presence. Purpose.

Because flirting is just the trailer.

Effort is the full movie.

And breadcrumbs are officially off the menu.

🎁 Grab the Free Pour — five drinks, five Sip Sermons, zero pressure.🍹 When you’re ready to stop playing with potential and start honoring boundaries, Styles invites you to tap into the Brunch Behavior Summer Pack.

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