I went out and brew over this idea for a while. How do you effectively flirt. I asked my friends how do they like to be flirted with and it all a seemed very contradicting it seemed as if everyone liked a different approach. So I could not pin point what made flirt successful or what made it clear that is working. I went were I could find an answer and that was in a journal about social behaviour. In the journal I found a paper that made all the difference. 

I found out that there was 5 different types of flirting styles and each one is marked by a different approach and how well it is perceived and if that flirting approach is going to be successful.