In this episode, Kathryn Junius (a.k.a. "Nurse KJ") is back with us to discuss another sex topic: Is squirting real? When does it happen? What is it? Can only certain people do it? Michaela drops a few researched details about squirting and KJ and Patrick discuss a few personal stories on the topic.

Then they get into an emailer question about bringing sex toys into the bedroom after a 5th date. Do sex toys mean the sex isn’t good enough? Is the 5th date too soon to incorporate toys?

Finally, another listener asks, “How can I be taken seriously/not be seen as a ‘hook up’ if we had sex on the first date?” Can you have a serious relationship after hopping in the sheets on the first meeting?

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