Episode Summary

In this powerful and honest conversation, Flourish host Brandi Coulter sits down with Jaime Hlavin, wife of the Michigan District Superintendent for the Assemblies of God, to talk about thriving without burning out.

Rooted in Proverbs 4:23, this episode explores what it really means to guard your heart spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically. Brandi and Jaime unpack how to build rhythms of rest, set holy boundaries, recognize signs of burnout, and lead from a place of overflow rather than exhaustion.

Together they tackle cultural and church-world expectations that glorify busyness, discuss how to say no without guilt, and remind listeners that ceasing isn’t failure.

Scripture References

• Proverbs 4:23 – “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

• Matthew 22:37-39 – Love God and love your neighbor as yourself.

• Matthew 11:28-30 – “Come to Me…and I will give you rest.”

• Genesis 2:2-3 – God ceased from His work and rested.

• Ephesians 6:15 – Feet fitted with the readiness of the gospel of peace.

• Psalm 23:3 – “He guides me along right paths for His name’s sake.”

  Key Takeaways

• Guarding your heart means protecting your peace, your time, and your focus.

• Boundaries are biblical—Jesus Himself rested and withdrew often.

• Burnout often disguises itself as faithfulness.

• Saying no can be holy; it makes space for what God truly assigned to you.

• Rest isn’t laziness—it’s obedience.

• Ministry prep time ≠ personal devotional time.

• Evaluate what drains you versus what gives life.

• Ceasing is completion, not quitting.

• The Church is God’s to sustain—we simply partner with Him.

• Thriving happens when your calendar aligns with your calling.

  
  

1. “You can’t love your neighbor well if you don’t first love yourself enough to rest.”

2. “Ceasing isn’t quitting—it’s declaring that what God has done is complete.”

3. “Guarding your heart is not selfish—it’s stewardship.”

4. “Burnout isn’t a badge of honor; it’s a boundary violation.”

5. “Obedience matters more than busyness.”

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Guest: Erin Olander

Episode Summary

In this heartfelt episode of The Flourish Podcast, Brandi sits down with Erin Olander to talk about what it truly means to thrive through abiding in Christ. From her experiences living in Lithuania, Erin shares honest reflections on spiritual growth, cultural differences in faith practices, and the tension between longing and thriving.

The conversation dives into John 15 and the process of pruning, exploring how God shapes us through stillness, surrender, and community. Whether you’re walking through a season of isolation or learning to stay connected to the vine, this episode will encourage you to remain rooted and faithful — even when it’s hard to see the fruit.

Scripture References

• John 15:5 — “I am the vine; you are the branches...”

• Psalm 46:10 — “Be still and know that I am God.”

• Hebrews 10:24–25 — “Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.”

• James 1:2–4 — “Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete.”

• Galatians 5:22–23 — The fruit of the Spirit.

  Key Takeaways

• Abiding in Christ means staying connected even when you feel disconnected.

• True thriving doesn’t always look like success — sometimes it looks like staying.

• Cultural differences shape how we live out faith, but truth remains universal.

• Pruning isn’t punishment; it’s preparation for new growth.

• The busyness of life can rob us of intimacy with God — be still anyway.

• Community helps us bear fruit we could never grow alone.

• Thriving can coexist with longing.

• Spiritual growth requires surrender, patience, and perspective.

Listener Invitation

We’d love to hear how this episode spoke to you! Leave a review, share it with a friend, or tag us on Instagram at @untilallflourish. You can also join The Flourish Table — our online community for women building real, rooted connection in faith and life.

Resources and Links

Visit untilallflourish.com for free Bible studies, devotionals, and resources to help you flourish in every season.

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Thriving in the Wilderness: How God Makes a Way in Dry Seasons

Season 5 is here! In this solo kickoff, Brandi gets honest about walking through a wilderness season and unpacks what Scripture says about thriving when life feels dry, quiet, and barren. From Israel’s wanderings to Jesus’ 40 days, you’ll learn why the wilderness is preparation, not punishment. We’ll break down Isaiah 43:19 into three truths, name what the desert looks like in real life, and get practical: guarding your words, finding manna, leaning into community, and looking for the “streams in the wasteland.” If you’re tired of asking “Why me?” and ready to ask “Lord, what are You forming in me?”... this one’s for you.

Scripture references

Isaiah 43:19 — God makes a way in the wilderness; streams in the wasteland

Psalm 23:4 — Valley of the shadow of death; He is with us

Exodus 13:21–22 — Cloud by day, fire by night (God’s guidance)

Exodus 16:4–5, 31–32 — Manna and daily provision

Deuteronomy 8:2–3 — Wilderness as testing and forming dependence

Matthew 4:1–11; Luke 4:1–14 — Jesus tempted in the wilderness; returns in the power of the Spirit

John 15:1–5 — Vine, branches, pruning, fruit

Habakkuk 1:5 — “Look… I am doing something in your days…”

Ezekiel 37:1–6 — Dry bones brought to life

Ezekiel 36:26 — Heart of stone to heart of flesh

Exodus 2:23–25 — God hears the cries of His people

Psalm 34:17 — The righteous cry, the Lord hears

Listener invitation

If this episode meets you in a dry place, don’t walk it alone. Join our FREE virtual Bible study and pull up a chair at the Flourish table, there’s a seat with your name on it. Share this episode with a friend who’s waiting, wandering, or weary. Leave a rating/review to help more women find hope in the wilderness.

Resources & links

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Godfidence: The Key to Living EmpoweredEpisode Summary:In this heartfelt solo episode, Brandi shares vulnerable truths about battling insecurity, spiritual lies, and the importance of self-empowerment rooted in God's Word. From confronting the inner critic to rediscovering what’s already in your hands, this episode is a wake-up call to stop minimizing what God has called mighty. You’ll hear encouragement, practical steps, and scriptural truth to help you step out of the shadows and into your God-given confidence. Scriptures Referenced:Genesis 3:11Romans 12:32 Corinthians 10:5Psalm 139:14Ephesians 2:10Exodus 4:1–5Proverbs 18:412 Timothy 1:7And a bonus list of 50 identity verses from throughout ScriptureListener Invitation:If this episode speaks to your heart, share it with a friend who needs this reminder. And if you're feeling called to help others walk in their God-given calling, we're currently looking for virtual Bible study leaders. Apply at the link below.Resources & Links:Download the Free Empower Bible Study: www.untilallflourish.com/biblestudiesFollow on Instagram, Tik Tok or Pinterest: @untilallflourishJoin The Flourish Table Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Fq44SUk23/Apply to Lead a Virtual Study Group: https://forms.gle/iABSb1ztsRPsyJMt9

Encouraged to Empower: Why Your Words Matter More Than You Think

Guest: Kevin Smith

Episode Summary

Words hold weight. They can heal or hurt, build up or break down, release chains or reinforce walls. In this powerful episode of The Flourish Podcast, Brandi sits down with Kevin (a spiritual father, encourager, and leader) who reminds us how deeply our words reflect the heart of the Father. From navigating strained relationships to the transforming power of prayer, this conversation will stir your spirit, challenge your mindset, and call you to steward your words with purpose.

Whether you’re walking through brokenness or speaking life into others, this episode is a reminder that your voice carries eternal impact.

Scriptures Referenced

Proverbs 18:21

Romans 10:9–10

James 3:6

Matthew 12:34

Revelation 3:20

Philippians 4:6–7

1 Chronicles 28:20

Isaiah 61:1–3

Listener Invitation

If this episode speaks to you, don’t keep it to yourself. Share it with a friend, leave a review, or start a conversation in your community. Want to go deeper? Grab a journal and reflect on how you’re using your words this week: Are they bringing life, or sowing harm? Are they healing or dividing?

Resources & Links

Follow on Instagram: @untilallflourish

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Contact Kevin: Email [email protected] or message @untilallflourish

What Makes A Leader Worth Following?

Guests: Scott Laurain and Frank Coulter

EPISODE SUMMARY

What does it mean to truly lead with empowerment? In this compelling episode of Flourish, host Brandi sits down with two remarkable leaders: Pastor Scott, the lead pastor of their church, and her husband Frank, the executive pastor. Together, they unpack what it looks like to lead not from ego or control, but from vision, trust, and humility.

From creating culture to cultivating unity, they explore how Spirit-led leadership equips others, embraces failure, and prioritizes growth.

Whether you’re leading a church, a team, a business, or simply leading in your home, this conversation will challenge and equip you to lead like Jesus.

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES

Luke 16:10 – “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much.”

1 Corinthians 11:1 – “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.”

Isaiah 55:8–9 – “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord.

Acts 2 – The discomfort of the upper room that led to revival

Joshua 1 – Leading into the unknown and trusting God’s vision

LISTENER INVITATION

If you’ve ever felt the weight of leadership, this episode is for you. Be sure to subscribe, leave a rating, and share this with a leader in your life. We lead better when we lead together.

✨ Tag us on Instagram @UntilAllFlourish and let us know your biggest takeaway!

✨ Ready to go deeper? Visit UntilAllFlourish.com for our free Empowerment Bible Study.

RESOURCES & LINKS

Connect with Pastor Scott and Frank at theshoreschurch.org

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Empowered + Sent: How Radical Generosity Fuels Global Ministry

Guest: Karri Woolley

What does it look like to live fully empowered by the support of others? In this compelling conversation, Brandi sits down with Karri, a missionary serving in Ecuador who shares the highs, the heartbreak, and the holy moments of life on the mission field.

Together, they explore what it means to raise a family while living on 100% financial support, how generosity changes both the giver and the receiver, and why being “sent” isn’t just for missionaries; it’s a calling for every believer.

If you’ve ever wondered how your generosity empowers someone else’s obedience, this episode will open your eyes to what God can do when we give, go, and stay with purpose.

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Scripture References:

Philippians 4:19

2 Corinthians 9:11

Acts 13

Jeremiah 17:7-8

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Listener Invitation:

This week, we challenge you to reflect on who your life is empowering. Are you giving in ways that send others? Are you staying in your post with faithfulness while cheering someone else on?

Then share this episode with a friend who’s walking in faith and might need the reminder that you are not alone, and your obedience matters.

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Empowered by The Ones Who Sharpen + The Ones Who Stay

Episode Description:

We were never meant to grow alone. In this solo episode, Brandi shares a tender yet bold invitation into the kind of community that empowers us through truth, presence, and prayer.

Drawing from Proverbs 27, Ecclesiastes 4, James 5, and Galatians 6, this conversation explores how real accountability is about being known, being lifted, and being lovingly sharpened by people who will stay when the growing gets hard.

Empowerment is not always loud. Sometimes, it sounds like confession. Sometimes, it looks like someone reaching down to pull you up. And sometimes, it begins with letting yourself be seen.

In This Episode, Brandi Reflects On:

• Why the people who speak truth matter deeply

• The power of being lifted when you are too weary to stand

• The difference between being called out and being called up

• Why healing flows through vulnerability and prayer

• What it really means to be empowered in community

  
  

  Scriptures Referenced:

• Proverbs 27:17

• Galatians 6:1–2

• James 5:16

• Ecclesiastes 4:9–10

  
  

Let’s Stay Connected:

If this episode encouraged or challenged you, I would love to hear from you. Leave a rating, write a review, or connect with me on Instagram @untilallflourish. And be sure to subscribe. New episodes release on the 1st and 15th of every month.

Until next time, let’s build deep roots, bear good fruit, and flourish together.

Empowerment in the Secret Place: A Conversation on Faith, Healing, and Hope

Guest: Kyla Peanosky

Episode Summary:

In this sacred and powerful episode of Flourish, Brandi sits down with a friend, Kyla, whose story is marked by deep faith, radical hope, and unwavering courage. Currently walking through stage 4 breast cancer, she shares not only what the journey has cost her, but what it’s taught her about the presence and power of God in the secret place.

This conversation is about healing, but it’s also about identity. It’s about the empowerment that happens when no one’s watching. The kind that’s forged not on platforms, but in prayer closets. In stillness. In surrender.

If you’re in a hidden season, a hard season, or just longing to know that God is near in the quiet places… this episode is for you.

What You’ll Hear:

• How to remain rooted in God when life takes an unexpected turn

• What the “secret place” actually looks like in suffering

• How empowerment doesn’t always feel loud—but it is still powerful

• Why worship and community matter more than ever in dark seasons

• How to walk in bold faith while still holding space for grief

  Scriptures Referenced:

• 2 Timothy 1:7 “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”
  
• Psalm 118:24 “This is the day the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.
  
• Isaiah 40:29 “He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.”
  
• 2 Corinthians 12:9 “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
  
• Psalm 91:1 “He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.”
  
• Romans 12:2 “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
  
• Psalm 23:4 “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me.”
  
• Isaiah 26:3 “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”
  

This week, spend time in your own secret place with God.
Bring your questions. Bring your heartache.
You are never alone there.

Resources & Links:

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Empowerment Through Discipleship with Pastor Taka Iguchi | Flourish Podcast

In this thought-provoking episode, Brandi sits down with Pastor Taka Iguchi, lead pastor of Voice Church in California and a long-time discipleship leader, to explore how true empowerment happens not through titles or platforms, but through intentional, relational discipleship.

Together, they unpack the difference between teaching and truly walking alongside someone, how to lead others into transformation rather than performance, and why the hidden work of discipleship may be the most powerful calling of all. With years of experience discipling others through the real, raw, and often messy parts of faith, Taka offers both wisdom and challenge to anyone longing to grow in Christ.

Whether you’re new to discipleship or longing to deepen your impact, this episode will inspire you to step boldly into the call to lead and be led.

What to you'll learn in this episode:

• The true difference between information and transformation in discipleship

• Why empowerment starts in relationship, not in curriculum or teaching

• How hidden, faithful investment can impact generations

• What it looks like to disciple in everyday life, not just in structured programs

• How to lead others without losing your own soul

• Empowerment through relationship

• Spiritual maturity beyond surface growth

• Leading with humility and intention

• Making disciples in the modern world

  
  

Ask yourself: Who is discipling me? And who am I discipling?
Take one intentional step this week to pour into someone—or invite someone to pour into you.

Resources from this episode:

• Learn more about Voice Church: voice.church

• Follow Pastor Taka on Instagram: @takaiguchi

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• Connect with Flourish: untilallflourish.com