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Discipleship sounds important...but what does it actually look like?

In this episode, we're getting honest about the fact that there's no one-size-fits-all formula for discipling someone. You can't just follow a checklist---you have to depend on the Holy Spirit every step of the way.

But that doesn't mean it's random either. We talk about how discipleship is:

✨ 1. Customized---the way you walk with someone through following Jesus should reflect who they are (their personality, their struggles, and how they connect with God)

✨ 2. Delegated---real discipleship means giving away authority---not holding on to it. This is how they learn to hear from the Holy Spirit for themselves.

We also dive into how Jesus discipled people differently:

👀 Peter vs. John---same Jesus, but very different approach

👀 The 72 disciples---and how they came back different people after being given authority to serve Jesus

So basically, you don't have to wait until you feel "ready" to disciple someone. If you follow Jesus, you're called to make disciples too. Not only CAN you do this...you're meant to 💕

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In this episode, Breezy shares her powerful testimony of growing up in a Christian home while navigating fear, brokenness, and hidden sin---and how an encounter with Jesus changed everything.

As the youngest of five, Breezy was raised by a faithful mother while her father had walked away from the Lord before she was born. Growing up, she struggled with fear, isolation, and the weight of watching her siblings drift away from faith.

Even in the midst of that, Breezy encountered the Holy Spirit at a young age and knew deeply that God was real---and that He loved her.

But soon after this, Breezy began battling an addiction to pornography. Shame kept her silent, and the loneliness of the pandemic only intensified her struggle.

Then, during summer 2020, everything changed. Through an online summer camp, Breezy realized she had never truly surrendered her life to Jesus. In a moment of clarity, she recognized that the only thing she had to offer the King of kings was whole self---but He saw her as deeply valuable.

Since that moment, Breezy has experienced true freedom. Today, she walks boldly with the Lord, free from addiction, and is stepping into her calling as a worship leader---radiating the love and light of Christ to everyone around her.

What You'll Hear in This Episode:

- Growing up in a divided spiritual household

- Wrestling with fear and family dynamics

- Encountering the Holy Spirit at a young age

- The hidden struggle with pornography and shame

- Isolation and mental battles during the pandemic

- The moment of true surrender to Jesus

- Walking in freedom and identity in Christ

- Stepping into your purpose

Key Message:

You don't have to clean yourself up before coming to God---all He's ever wanted is you, fully surrendered in trust to Him!

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[Intro/Outro Music]

Artist: Xyck

💪 OUR TEAM

"B"---Executive Producer

Xyck---Videographer/Producer/Composer

Laine Christopher---Social Media Manager

Wildflower Women's Bible Study---Best Friends/Cheerleaders/Prayer Warriors/Comrades in Christ

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What does it actually mean to follow Jesus--and help someone else do the same?

In this episode, we're talking more about discipleship and how it matters more than ever. We deep dive into Hebrews 11 and unpack the idea that faith isn't meant to be held onto---it's meant to be passed on.

Think of it like a baton in a relay race---someone handed it to you, and now you get to run your leg faithfully and pass it on to the next generation.

We also get real about the difference between discipleship and therapy (because, yes, you probably need both 👀), and how discipleship is what helps us build endurance to actually run our race of faith with God.

At the end of the day, discipleship is bigger than us. It's about joining the story of the "great cloud of witnesses (Hebrews 12:1)" to the divine beauty of Jesus Christ---receiving faith from those who came before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, and pouring into the people coming after us.

In this episode, we talk about:

- Hebrews 11 and the "race of faith" imagery

- The difference between discipleship and therapy (and why both matter)

- Spiritual legacy and "passing the baton"

- How discipleship builds endurance in your walk with God

- Being poured into vs. pouring out into others

Key Takeaway: You weren't meant to run your race of faith alone---and your faith was never meant to stop with you ✝️🏃‍♀️‍➡️

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Artist: Xyck

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"B"---Executive Producer

Xyck---Videographer/Producer/Composer

Laine Christopher---Social Media Manager

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Kelly shares her powerful testimony of growing up under an angry, controlling father while struggling to believe that God could truly be a loving Father.

After years of rebellion, trauma, deep anger, and the devastating loss of her mom, Kelly reached a breaking point and cried out to God to take the anger she couldn't carry anymore. In that moment, everything changed.

Now walking in freedom, forgiveness, and healing, Kelly shares how Jesus transformed her life, restored relationships, and revealed a love far greater than she ever imagined.

If you've ever wrestled with anger, father wounds, or wondering if God really loves you---this episode is for you 💗

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Laine Christopher---Social Media Manager

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Discipleship is powerful---which means it can either form people into Christlikeness or deeply wound them. Let's talk about what healthy, Biblical discipleship actually looks like.

In this conversation episode of flower & flame, we define what Biblical discipleship truly is---and what it is not.

We talk about the difference between discipleship and mentorship, and why spiritual health matters when influence is involved. Anchored in the Great Commission (Matthew 28:18-20), we explore how best to use the authority and influence Jesus entrusted to His Church.

We also have an honest conversation about how unhealthy spiritual leaders can cause real harm---even abuse---when influence is not submitted to Christ. We even referenced the current public example of the false prophecy controversy connected to Bethel Church as we reflect on the dangers of power disconnected from integrity.

We close with this reminder: Scripture is the final authority over every leader. When influence contradicts the Bible in its full context, it is loving and faithful to call one another back to Truth and wholeness. Discipleship should produce humility, repentance, and Christlikeness---not control or fear.

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Artist: Xyck

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"B"---Executive Producer

Xyck---Videographer/Producer/Composer

Laine Christopher---Social Media Manager

Wildflower Women's Bible Study---Best Friends/Cheerleaders/Prayer Warriors/Comrades in Christ

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In this episode of flower & flame, our friend (and social media manager!), Laine, shares her story of growing up in church, loving Jesus from a young age, and eventually realizing that knowing about God isn't the same as knowing His heart. After her parents' divorce, Laine began tying her worth to belonging and performance---trying to be "good enough" to secure love.

In college, through a Christian campus ministry and a close-knit women's Bible study, Laine started to confront the fear of losing love that she'd had for years. As self-condemnation tightened its grip, Jesus met her in the middle of her pain and enlightened the reality of the Gospel: His love is based on what He has done for her, not what she can do for Him.

Though still in process, Laine now clings to the promise of Romans 8:1---that there is no condemnation for whose who are in Christ Jesus! And almost as important, Laine will tell you that choosing the hard that God offers is ALWAYS better than choosing the hard the world gives 🤍

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Artist: Xyck

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"B"---Executive Producer

Xyck---Videographer/Producer/Composer

Laine Christopher---Social Media Manager

Wildflower Women's Bible Study---Best Friends/Cheerleaders/Prayer Warriors/Comrades in Christ

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In this episode of flower & flame, we talk about why committing to a local church still matters---especially in the 2020s. Building on our last conversation about covenant, we explore how intimacy with Jesus grows through consistency, just like in any meaningful relationship.

We unpack why so many Christians are opting out of church today, and why choosing to be an active participant of a local church is actually a wise and spiritually-forming decision. The local church is where believers experience oneness of the Bride of Christ, learn how to serve, get wise counsel, practice forgiveness, and build real relationships with people who think differently than we do.

Our unity as believers doesn't just shape us---it shows the watching world Who Jesus is and how deeply He loves them 🤍

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Laine Christopher---Social Media Manager

Wildflower Women's Bible Study---Best Friends/Cheerleaders/Prayer Warriors/Comrades in Christ

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⚠️TRIGGER WARNING: This episode includes discussions of sexual assault, addiction, and suicidal ideation. Listener discretion is advised.

📞 NATIONAL SUICIDE HOTLINE: 9-8-8

💐🔥 What happens when faith is built on rules instead of relationship---and curiosity is met with shame instead of compassion? In this deeply honest episode of flower & flame, Savannah shares her testimony of loss, healing, and radical redemption.

Growing up in a military family and an extremely strict, religious environment, Savannah learned early that modesty, obedience, and rules were everything. Although she professed faith in Jesus at a young age, she began to question why the rules existed---questions that were not warmly welcomed. Instead of being discipled through this curiosity, Savannah was silenced.

Her pain started to turn into trauma in her early 20s when she was sexually assaulted in a relationship, turning to addiction to substances to cope. At her lowest, Savannah even considered taking her own life.

But God wasn't finished with her story.

The unexpected inspiration of friends, Savannah met a Biblical counselor who helped her process her trauma, confront her brokenness, and rediscover Jesus---her wonderful Savior Who deeply loves her.

This episode is for the girl who:

🌷 Feels crushed by religious pressure

🌷 Has walked through trauma or abuse

🌷 Is questioning religion, but still longing for Jesus

🌷 Wonders if healing is really possible for her As of the date of this episode release,

Savannah is now celebrating 4 YEARS OF SOBRIETY!!! She is living proof that Jesus doesn't just forgive---He transforms.

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[Intro/Outro Music]

Artist: Xyck

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"B"---Executive Producer

Xyck---Videographer/Producer/Composer

McKayla Blackstone---Production Assistant

Laine Christopher---Social Media Manager

Wildflower Women's Bible Study---Best Friends/Cheerleaders/Prayer Warriors/Comrades in Christ

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God doesn't see the Church as a project to fix---He sees her as a bride to love 👰‍♀️✝️

Ever wonder how God actually feels when His people walk away? What if His relationship with the Church is less about rules---and looks more like a marriage?

In this episode of flower and flame, we unpack all the Scriptures and our own stories, talking marriage, heartbreak, covenant, and faithfulness. We trace God's love from Israel to now, discovering how Jesus is the Bridegroom of the Church, His Bride.

Through our exploration of the Bible's marriage imagery, this episode will show you how Jesus secures a love for His people that can never be broken 💕

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"B"---Executive Producer

Xyck---Videographer/Producer/Composer

McKayla Blackstone---Production Assistant

Laine Christopher---Social Media Manager

Wildflower Women's Bible Study---Best Friends/Cheerleaders/Prayer Warriors/Comrades in Christ

⚠️ TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions about childhood sexual abuse, domestic violence, and abortion. Please listen with care.

Resources:

National Domestic Violence Hotline — https://www.thehotline.org

Choices Pregnancy Centers — https://www.choiceschattanooga.org

You are not alone. ❤️

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In today's episode, we sit down with Kassie, who shares her heartfelt journey of searching for love, walking through deep hurt, and ultimately finding freedom and identity in Jesus.

Adopted as a child, Kassie spent much of her life longing to belong. As she grew older, she faced painful experiences and found herself in a relationship that left her feeling broken and unsure of her worth. In her lowest moment, Kassie turned back to Jesus and surrendered everything to Him---and that's where healing began ✝️❤️‍🩹

Today, Kassie mentors young women and helps them discover the same Truth she did:

✨Your worth is found in Jesus alone

✨Surrender leads to healing

✨God can restore even the most painful parts of our stories

✨Jesus uses our suffering to reveal His great love to us

Kassie's testimony is a reminder that God meets us with gentleness, redemption, and unfailing love. If this episode encourages you, don't forget to like, comment, subscribe, and ring that notification bell---and share it with someone who could use hope today 💕

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[Intro/Outro Music] Artist: Xyck

💪 OUR TEAM

"B"---Executive Producer

Xyck---Videographer/Producer/Composer

McKayla Blackstone---Production Assistant

Laine Christopher---Social Media Manager

Wildflower Women's Bible Study---Best Friends/Cheerleaders/Prayer Warriors/Comrades in Christ