Flowers on Tuesday - Relationship Advice

You're doing so many things right, you're pouring so much effort into the relationship. 

But it still feels like the relationship isn't as good as you'd hoped, that's because a relationship takes two people investing. 

In this video I break down exactly how I actually stopped losing myself in the relationship and finally felt calm in love.

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10 secure actions you can take now 
1. Spend 20 minutes on something that is purely yours today.
2. Wear something today that makes you feel amazing, not just comfortable.
3. Put your phone away during one meal today. Just enjoy eating.
4. Do something today that your future self will thank you for.
5. Do one thing today that feels indulgent and refuse to feel guilty about it.
6. Do something that makes you feel beautiful today.
7. Identify one area of your life that feels chaotic. Take one small step to bring calm to it.
8. Choose joy today. Not because everything is perfect, but because you decided to.
9. Delete one thing from your phone that's making you feel worse about yourself.
10. Move your body outside for 10 minutes in a way that feels good.

In this video I break down the actual method I used to go from anxiously attached to feeling secure, and once I stepped into the secure version of me I felt so much better in dating. 

This  video is brutally honest relationship advice, I cant wait to see you implement these suggestions and change your life.

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In this video, we break down exactly why men take forever to text back, what it actually means when he claims he's busy, and how to handle it from the secure version of you. 

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If a guy hasn't texted you in 5 days, is he busy or losing interest? I asked my husband Niklavs to be honest about what's really going on when a man stops texting, and what you should do next.

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In this video I share some things I personally did to help overcome my anxious attachment. I truly believe you can build a more secure version of you, and I'm gonna show you how. 

I watched so many videos, listened to podcasts, read books and invested hours into my own self improvement to learn these things, I hope they help you to save some time and heal your anxious attachment. 

Here's the link to get my app Alora, It'll give you brutally honest feedback and help you calm your anxious attachment: https://alora.love/y/7dayfreetrial

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In this video I break down 12 exact texting examples, of common messages men send, and how to respond from a place of security. 

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Let me know what other videos you want to see more of. Has a man ever texted you one of these messages?

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In this episode we break down exactly why doing more for a man actually can end up pushing him away from you and exactly what to do instead. 

If you've been cooking for him, texting first, planning the dates, and somehow he still feels further away than when you started this, this podcast is going to be uncomfortable because the thing you think is making him love you is the exact thing making him get pushed away. 

The moment you started doing more was the exact moment he started doing less and that's not a coincidence. 

Men don't fall in love with what you do for them, if he's a good man. They fall in love with how they feel around you, and a woman who's exhausted from over giving doesn't feel good to be around. 

We break down why the women that have their own life are the most magnetic, and why over-giving might be silently destroying your relationship, and what to do about it instead. 

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Why does it feel like 8 out of 10 guys you like turn avoidant? In this episode, Niklavs and I break down the real psychology behind why men pull away, and why chasing them only makes it worse. 

We cover how to spot a truly avoidant man vs. one who's just busy, why putting yourself first makes you more magnetic, and how I went from being ghosted constantly to Niklavs flying 4,000 miles for me. If you're tired of overthinking every text, this one's for you.

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I used to think that if I just did enough for the man I was with, he would eventually love me more. So I was always bending over backwards, cooking elaborate meals, writing four page letters, doing acts of service I thought would make him chase me harder. It never worked. 

In this episode, Niklavs and I break down why doing more for a man almost never makes him love you more, and why it can actually push him away. We talk about love languages, why most men do not value acts of service the way women do, why men pull back the moment a woman goes all in, and what to do instead if you want a man to actually chase you. This episode gave me permission to stop overworking for love, and I hope it does the same for you.

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Niklavs joins me on the podcast to answer your dating and relationship questions together, and this one is packed. 

We cover the truth about dating with an age gap, why dating feels expensive and exhausting (and how to fix that), the one question you should always ask in early dating, and how to actually become the kind of woman a high-value man wants to lock down. Nick shares the male perspective on avoidant men, red flags on a first date, and why he never felt the need to "convince" anyone to commit. 

We also get into how to truly get over an ex, why staying friends after a breakup rarely works, and the difference between a man who sees you as an 8 and a man who sees you as a 10. If you've ever wondered how to raise your standards, spot a red flag early, or know when someone is truly ready to build a future with you, this episode is for you.

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