** Everything hurts more after cancer: resist the urge to live in the trauma or play the victim.

** Acknowledge the shittiness of the situation, but don’t live there.

** Cancer + Fertility + Uncertainty = ??

** No one picks their cancer, but things we do can influence our cancer.

** Cancer starts in the in between epithelial transferal liminal spaces--where things mix.

** Plan for the apocalypse if that helps.

** Channel your inner zen master.

** Forcing forward can be good--it’s a sign of hope.

** Maybe plan a little bit less for the future. Sit back and enjoy the ride.

** Maybe you have to have plans and goals--that’s what keeps you going.

** A dream without a plan is just a wish.