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We read MJ’s letter about paying his way through bad dates in the U.S., then weighing a flood of attention from Filipino Cupid. We share hard-won rules for vetting abroad, spending smart, spotting red flags, and choosing a path that protects your heart and your wallet.

• why money-led dating backfires and how to set pace
• how to vet online matches with simple, consistent checks
• practical safety tips for Cebu travel and meetups
• cultural context in the Philippines and family expectations
• red flags: visa talk, gift-for-intimacy, story gaps
• green flags: steady contact, no asks, public meets
• budgeting rules: cards over cash, hotel safe, daily caps
• choosing depth over volume and building a shortlist
• boundaries with family support vs long-term obligations
• planning for honesty about kids, commitment, and timeline

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