We say we forgive, but we really don't. We actually live in a grudge filled system. We rarely forgive in such a manner that situations no longer have an edge for us. This is usually the case when we haven't reconciled things and say we have. The grudge comes out in bursts of anger, snide remarks and impatient reactions.
When we forgive, it is not letting the other person off the hook, it is actually being compassionate with ourselves for carrying around unnecessary dis-eases. We can be free my friend when we forgive.
God bless,
Rev Leon
Psalm 32:1-7