There are many reason we choose or choose not to forgive. Forgiveness isn't an easy gesture but it has a lot of benefits. We should strive to get a better understanding of forgiveness.  The closer we get to God, the easier it is to forgive when you've been hurt. God loves you. Psalms 103:12-as far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions" Many blessings