“People say to me all the time, ‘I can't do what you do. It would be too hard to get the kids back.’ My response is, ‘Well, that's how it supposed to be. These kids need stability and they need security, but what do they need more than anything else? It's for someone to love them with all of their heart, so that when the children do leave, part of our heart is leaving with them,’” John said. “As foster parents, we are giving the child what he needs the most and that is for someone to love them. For some of these kids, we might be the first person who has ever loved that child with all our heart.”