Of all the circumstances in which one can live kid free, now has to be among the most glorious. I have four specific reasons why:
- Avoiding the parenting shitshow
I want nothing to do with the cocktail of emotions parents are experiencing right now. Fear, anxiety, guilt, stress and inadequacy come to mind. - Nurturing my well-being
Being able to prioritize my physical, emotional and mental health is an absolute gift. Quarantine feels borderline indulgent sometimes. - Being a support system
Supporting your loved ones through this mess is of an act of service these days. Parents are struggling right now, but so are non-parents: everyone’s struggle is real. - Noticing habits and reevaluating priorities
Social distancing has exposed my tendency for social distracting. Turns out I’ve been investing time in activities and relationships that don’t add a whole lot of value to my life and in some cases, are actually detrimental.