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How Military Bonds Are Built, Tested, and Rebuilt After Service

This week on Four Titles, One Truth, we’re joined by our brother and first non-spouse guest — SGM (Ret.) Sean Parrish, Class 67 “Lead, Learn, Inspire.”

In this powerful conversation, we break down what brotherhood really means — before the Army, inside the uniform, and long after retirement.

Together, Tommie, Lance, and Sean dig into:

•How early life shaped their idea of “brothers”

•How military culture redefined loyalty, trust, and responsibility

•The difference between surface-level friendships and true lifelong bonds

•Why so many veterans lose connection after hanging up the boots

•How men can rebuild brotherhood in civilian life

•The mental, emotional, and spiritual impact of losing that military tribe

•What every Soldier, Veteran, husband, and father should know about male connection

This episode is honest… and it’s necessary. Brotherhood doesn’t stop when the uniform comes off — but keeping it alive takes intention.

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“God, Country, and Service: How Faith Shapes Soldiers and Veterans”

In this episode of Four Titles, One Truth, Tommie and Lance take on a question that challenges faith, leadership, and service: Should religion have a place in today’s military?

From morning prayers in formation to chaplain talks and personal belief systems in combat zones, this conversation explores how faith shapes soldiers, unites some, and divides others. The hosts open up about:

•Balancing personal faith with professionalism

•How faith shows up (or doesn’t) in the military environment

•Whether religion helps or hinders morale and mental health

•What faith looks like for veterans today

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The Truth About Growth, Lessons, and the Power of Failing Forward

In this episode of Four Titles, One Truth, Tommie and Lance open up about the moments that didn’t go as planned — the failures that shaped their character, careers, and purpose.

From setbacks in leadership to personal struggles, this conversation dives deep into the uncomfortable truth: failure isn’t the opposite of success — it’s the foundation of it.

They explore how learning from mistakes, staying humble, and growing through pain have been the real markers of success — not the titles or accomplishments.

Whether you’re a man navigating fatherhood, marriage, military life, or personal growth, this episode will challenge you to rethink how you define winning — and how much power there is in losing the right way.

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A real conversation about brotherhood, isolation, and the unspoken battles men face.

Loneliness doesn’t always look like what people think.

In this powerful episode, Tommie and Lance open up about what feeling alone really  felt like to them — from emotional disconnection and societal expectations to the quiet struggles of marriage, fatherhood, and life after the military.

They explore why so many men suppress vulnerability, how isolation shows up even in relationships, and what real connection and community could look like if men were honest about what they’re feeling.

Whether you’re a husband, father, veteran, or just trying to figure it all out — this episode is for you.

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In this powerful and thought-provoking episode, Tommie and Lance explore the evolution of Black culture from their perspective — from a history of stolen identity to becoming one of the most influential forces on the planet.

They reflect on how centuries of resilience, creativity, and faith turned pain into purpose and culture into global influence. From music and fashion to language and leadership, the guys share how the Black experience has shaped not just their personal identities but the entire world’s rhythm.

It’s honest. It’s real. And it’s a celebration of what Black culture truly means — beyond trends, beyond imitation — rooted in power, legacy, and truth.

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How our mothers’ love, faith, and sacrifices shaped the men we became.

In this heartfelt episode of Four Titles, One Truth, Tommie and Lance pay tribute to the women who built their foundation — their mothers.

From lessons in strength and faith to the power of empathy, patience, and sacrifice, the guys open up about how their moms shaped their identities as men, fathers, and husbands. This isn’t just a Mother’s Day conversation — it’s a celebration of legacy, resilience, and the women who kept the family strong even when life got hard.

🎧 Listen in as two sons honor the women who made them who they are — through love, prayer, and unshakable faith.

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How Travel Changed Our Lives as Black Men — From Military Duty to Personal Discovery

In this episode of Four Titles, One Truth, Tommie and Lance take listeners on a journey through how travel has shaped their lives — before, during, and after the military.

From first road trips and deployments to discovering the freedom of exploring the world on their own terms, the two reflect on how seeing the world has changed their perspectives, strengthened their confidence, and deepened their appreciation for culture and connection.

They also talk about what travel means for Black men and Black women today — the pride, the curiosity, and the growing movement of people reclaiming the right to explore, learn, and live fully.

🌍 Whether you’re a veteran, a world traveler, or just curious about how travel transforms identity, this episode will inspire you to get out and see the world for yourself.

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How your purpose, pain, and persistence fuel your personal drive

What really keeps you going? Is it passion, pressure, pain, or purpose?

In this honest and powerful conversation, Tommie and Lance break down the real meaning of motivation — beyond clichés and buzzwords. They talk about what drove them early in life, how that motivation changed through their military careers, and what keeps them grounded today as Black men, husbands, fathers, and veterans.

From ambition to adversity, they explore the fine line between healthy drive and burnout — and how knowing your why changes everything.

💬 Tune in to this episode for real talk on growth, purpose, and staying the course.

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Uncovering what confidence really means for Black men

In this powerful episode of Four Titles, One Truth, Tommie and Lance dig beneath the surface to answer the question: Where does confidence truly come from?

We take you on a journey through our own stories — from the seasons of self-doubt, to breakthroughs, to the people, habits, and trials that shaped the confidence you see now.

You’ll hear how culture, identity, expectations, failures, and environments all played roles.

This isn’t about flashy motivational “be confident” talk — it’s real, raw, and practical for Black men, husbands, veterans, and all who want that inner backbone.

What we cover:

•Origin stories of confidence — when we first felt “less than”

•Failures, rejections, and how they forced growth

•People & rituals that reinforced self-belief (mentors, faith, discipline)

•Cultural pressures, expectations, and hidden battles

•Confidence vs arrogance: keeping humility in the climb

•How to build sustaining confidence in a world built to tear it down

Whether you already project confidence or still whisper your value — this episode is for you.

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Unfiltered truths about life in uniform—from Soldiers who lived it.

The Army gave us purpose, structure, and pride—but it wasn’t perfect. In this episode of Four Titles, One Truth, Tommie and Lance pull back the curtain on the challenges the military doesn’t always advertise. From bureaucracy and leadership failures, to deployments that strain families and policies that don’t make sense on the ground—we lived it, and we’re talking about it.

This isn’t about tearing the service down. It’s about telling the truth. Because anyone considering joining, or anyone who supports those who serve, deserves to understand both the opportunities and the hardships.

Covered in this episode:

•Why the military isn’t the “perfect” path people sometimes imagine

•Leadership struggles and how they affect soldiers at every level

•The impact of deployments and constant moves on families

•Policies and “red tape” that hurt more than they help

•The lessons we still carry, even through the hard times

If you’ve served, you’ll probably nod your head. If you haven’t, you’ll walk away with a deeper understanding.