SHOW LESSAnother wonderful dialogue and dialogos with my friend Joseph. In this we begin exploring the transformation that comes from crying and the nuances and dimensions that can be found in crying. We consider what it is to afford deep listening and the experience of contraction that can follow when a relationship space is enframed by trauma. A deeply emergent theme here was the role of dialogos and the shamanic sensibility in helping people find meaning, integrate trauma and break out of the stories that have kept them stuck. Much of what we talked about in this draws upon and will inform  the ongoing development of my own 1-1 dialogic practice.