Freedom and Agency are very related concepts. In both cases, we like to think of only our own freedoms and choice. But we need to realize that liberty and agency belong to everyone, which can be hard to accept. From the movie "The American President" - "America isn't easy. America is advanced citizenship. You've gotta want it bad, 'cause it's gonna put up a fight. It's gonna say, "You want free speech? Let's see you acknowledge a man whose words make your blood boil, who's standing center stage and advocating at the top of his lungs that which you would spend a lifetime opposing at the top of yours." Agency is much the same. You must allow others - especially family and friends - to have theirs.